We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting you and your family into His presence, knowing that He is the God of all comfort and justice. Your pain is deep, and the wounds you carry from your mother’s words, the betrayal at work, and the strain in your marriage are not unseen by Him. We also rejoice that you have acknowledged the name of Jesus Christ in your request, for it is only through Him that we find salvation, healing, and access to the Father. As Scripture declares, *"There is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Your faith in calling upon His name is a testament to His work in your life, and we stand with you in that truth.
First, let us address the brokenness in your relationship with your mother. The Scripture you shared from Psalm 27:10 is a powerful reminder: *"Though my father and mother forsake me, the Lord will receive me."* This is a promise that God’s love is steadfast even when human relationships fail. Yet, we must also remember that honoring our parents is a commandment from the Lord (Exodus 20:12), even when it is difficult. Your mother’s behavior—her anger, ingratitude, and harsh words—is not aligned with the fruit of the Spirit, which is *"love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control"* (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB). Her actions may stem from her own pain, bitterness, or spiritual bondage, but that does not excuse the harm she is causing. We pray that God would soften her heart and break the strongholds of resentment and anger in her life. *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger"* (Proverbs 15:1, WEB). While you cannot control her actions, you can respond in a way that honors God, even if that means setting boundaries for your own emotional and spiritual protection.
We also sense a deep sorrow in your words about feeling abandoned and alone. The enemy seeks to isolate you, but you are not alone—God is with you, and He has placed you in the body of Christ for support. Your mention of being "alone with the extermination of family and generation" is a lie from the pit of hell. In Christ, you are part of an eternal family, and your generational line is redeemed through Him. *"See how great a love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God!"* (1 John 3:1, WEB). Cling to this truth when loneliness threatens to overwhelm you.
The betrayal and abuse you suffered at work are grievous, and we acknowledge the trauma this has caused—financially, emotionally, and spiritually. The fear and panic you now experience are real, but they are not from God. *"For God hasn’t given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). We rebuke the spirits of fear, anxiety, and hopelessness that have taken root in your life because of these injustices. The Lord sees what was done to you in secret, and He will vindicate you. *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. He saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). We pray for divine restoration—for open doors of employment, for healing from the wounds of betrayal, and for the Lord to expose and break the alliances that were formed against you. Trust that He is your Provider, even when the way forward seems impossible.
Regarding your marriage, we must speak truth in love. You mentioned that your spouse does not like your family, particularly your mother, and that this has created division. Marriage is a covenant before God, and Scripture commands us, *"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord... Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her"* (Ephesians 5:22, 25, WEB). However, this covenant does not mean that a spouse’s dislike for your family should go unaddressed. If your spouse is a believer, we urge you both to seek godly counsel and prayer to reconcile this division. If your spouse is not a believer, we pray earnestly for their salvation, that their heart would be softened toward the things of God, including the family He has placed in your life. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If this is the case, we encourage you to live out your faith in such a way that your spouse may be drawn to Christ through your testimony (1 Peter 3:1-2).
We also notice that you did not explicitly mention whether your spouse is of the same faith. If you are unequally yoked, this is a matter of urgent prayer, as it can bring spiritual conflict into your home. Marriage is meant to reflect Christ and the Church, and when two believers are united, they can stand together against the schemes of the enemy. If your spouse is not a believer, we pray for their salvation and for God to give you wisdom and strength to navigate this challenge.
Lastly, we want to address the spiritual warfare at play in your life. You mentioned praying against the "demons human" who behaved evilly toward you. This is wise, for *"our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places"* (Ephesians 6:12, WEB). We stand with you in rebuking every spirit of division, bitterness, fear, and oppression that has sought to destroy you and your family. We declare that the blood of Jesus covers you, and that no weapon formed against you will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The Lord is your shield and your exceedingly great reward (Genesis 15:1).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of Your child, who is weary and burdened by the weight of broken relationships, betrayal, and fear. Lord, You see the tears they have cried in secret, and You hear the cries of their heart. We ask for Your healing touch to be upon them—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Father, we lift up their mother, who is bound by anger and resentment. Break the chains of bitterness in her life, Lord, and replace her heart of stone with a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). Soften her toward her child, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Convict her of her sinful words and actions, and draw her into repentance. Let her see the damage her behavior is causing, and give her a spirit of gratitude and love instead of criticism and abandonment.
Lord, we also pray for restoration in the workplace. You are the God who redeems what the enemy has stolen. Open doors of opportunity for employment, and let favor surround this beloved one like a shield (Psalm 5:12). Heal the trauma of betrayal and rejection, and replace fear with faith. You have not given a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. Let this truth take root in their heart.
Father, we ask for unity and godly love in their marriage. If their spouse is not a believer, we pray for salvation to come to their household. Soften their spouse’s heart toward their family, and break down the walls of division. If there is unbelief, let Your light shine so brightly through Your child that their spouse cannot help but be drawn to You. If both are believers, we pray for reconciliation and a shared commitment to honor You in their marriage and family relationships.
We rebuke every spirit of division, fear, and oppression that has sought to destroy this family. We bind the enemy’s plans and declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper. Let Your angels encamp around them, Lord, and let Your peace reign in their home.
Finally, Father, we pray for salvation for their entire family. You desire that none should perish but that all would come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). Draw each member of their family to Yourself, Lord, and let Your kingdom come in their lives. Comfort them with the hope of eternity, knowing that their father is with You in heaven, and that one day, they will be reunited in Your presence.
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. You are the God who heals, restores, and redeems. We trust You with every detail of this situation, and we ask for Your will to be done in Jesus’ mighty name. Amen.