Prayer for ###'s husband

[Snduirtor]

I speak declare demand command create I get a Husband that is a good thing for me GREATLY he can accept me as a ### because I'm born in ### & can accept me as a Retired Pastor of the World. Now Expose Exploit Binded up forevermore whom all doesn't want me to get a HUSBAND that's it that's 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[Articles]

We come before the Lord with a heavy heart, recognizing that this request is filled with confusion, frustration, and language that does not align with the humility, trust, and surrender that Scripture calls us to in our walk with God. First and foremost, we must address the absence of the name of Jesus Christ in this prayer. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father, for Jesus Himself said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6 WEB). It is only through faith in His sacrifice, repentance of sin, and submission to His lordship that we are saved and can come boldly before the throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16 WEB). If you have not placed your trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today, for *"if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9 WEB).

Now, regarding your request for a husband, we must rebuke the spirit of demand, entitlement, and manipulation that seems to be present in your words. Scripture teaches us that we are to *"delight ourselves in Yahweh, and he will give us the desires of our hearts"* (Psalm 37:4 WEB). This does not mean we command, declare, or demand what we want as if God were a genie to be summoned. Rather, it means we surrender our desires to Him, trusting that He knows what is best for us. The language of *"I speak, declare, demand, command, create"* is not the language of a humble servant of Christ. Jesus taught us to pray, *"Your kingdom come. Your will be done, as in heaven, so on earth"* (Matthew 6:10 WEB). Our prayers should reflect submission to God’s perfect will, not our own demands.

We also notice the repeated emphasis on external factors—your past as a pastor, your place of birth, and a focus on those who may oppose your desire for marriage. While we understand the loneliness and longing for companionship, we must remind you that God looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7 WEB). A godly marriage is not built on worldly qualifications or the approval of others but on a shared commitment to Christ. If you are seeking a spouse, we encourage you to focus on becoming the kind of person who reflects Christ’s love, humility, and purity. *"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised"* (Proverbs 31:30 WEB). The same applies to men—godly character, faithfulness, and a heart after God’s own heart are what truly matter.

We must also address the potential for bitterness or unforgiveness in your words. You mention those who *"don’t want me to get a husband"* and speak of binding and exposing them. Scripture is clear: *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18 WEB). Instead of focusing on those who may oppose you, focus on your own walk with the Lord. *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB). Unforgiveness and bitterness will only hinder your prayers and your peace.

Furthermore, we must caution against the mindset of *"exposing and exploiting"* others. This is not the way of Christ. Jesus taught us to *"bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you"* (Matthew 5:44 WEB). If there are people who have wronged you, release them to God and trust Him to bring justice in His time. *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil.’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22 WEB).

Now, let us pray in a manner that aligns with Scripture and God’s will:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this dear sister to You, asking that You would draw her close to Your heart and fill her with Your peace. Lord, we confess that our prayers are not about demanding our will but surrendering to Yours. We ask that You would soften her heart to trust in Your perfect timing and plan for her life. If it is Your will for her to be married, we pray that You would bring a godly spouse into her life—a man after Your own heart, who will love her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). Prepare her heart to be a godly wife, one who reflects Your love, grace, and purity.

Father, we ask that You would heal any wounds of loneliness, rejection, or bitterness in her heart. Replace those feelings with Your joy and the assurance that You are her ultimate companion. *"For your Maker is your husband; Yahweh of Armies is his name. The Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer"* (Isaiah 54:5 WEB). Help her to find her identity and worth in You alone, not in her marital status or the opinions of others.

Lord, we rebuke any spirit of entitlement, manipulation, or unforgiveness in her life. We ask that You would cleanse her heart and fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in humility, love, and forgiveness toward others. Teach her to pray as Jesus taught us: *"Your will be done"* (Matthew 6:10 WEB). May she seek You above all else, knowing that You are the giver of every good and perfect gift (James 1:17 WEB).

We also pray for protection over her mind and heart. Guard her from the enemy’s lies that she is unwanted or unworthy. Remind her daily that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14 WEB) and that You have a purpose for her life, whether single or married. Help her to use this season to grow closer to You, to serve Your kingdom, and to trust in Your unfailing love.

Father, if there are areas where she has strayed from Your will—whether in thought, word, or deed—we ask that You would convict her gently and lead her to repentance. May she walk in purity, holiness, and obedience to Your Word. And if marriage is not Your plan for her, give her the grace to embrace singleness as a gift, using her time and talents to glorify You (1 Corinthians 7:32-35 WEB).

We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your goodness and Your perfect plan for her life. May she find her ultimate fulfillment in You and walk in the confidence that comes from knowing You. In Jesus’ precious name we pray, Amen.

Finally, dear sister, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, allowing it to renew your mind and shape your desires. Seek godly counsel from mature believers who can walk alongside you in this season. Remember that *"the Lord is near to all those who call on him, to all who call on him in truth"* (Psalm 145:18 WEB). He hears your prayers, and He loves you more than you can imagine. Trust in Him, and He will direct your path (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). If you are not already part of a local church, we strongly encourage you to find one where you can grow in your faith, serve others, and be surrounded by the love and support of the body of Christ. You are not alone—God is with you, and so are we as we lift you up in prayer.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear sister, we hear your heart's longing for companionship and the desire for a godly marriage. We understand the loneliness and the struggle with past hurts and bitterness. We want to encourage you to focus on becoming the kind of person who reflects Christ's love, humility, and purity. Trust in God's perfect timing and plan for your life. If marriage is His will for you, He will bring a godly spouse into your life in His time. In the meantime, use this season to grow closer to God, serve His kingdom, and trust in His unfailing love for you. Remember that God is near to all those who call on Him in truth, and He hears your prayers. Trust in Him, and He will direct your path. You are not alone; God is with you, and so are we as we lift you up in prayer.