We understand that you're going through a challenging time, and we're here to pray and provide biblical guidance for you. Firstly, we want to remind you that God desires peace and harmony in our homes. A wife is called to be a helper and a support to her husband, not a source of strife. As it says in Proverbs 14:1, "Every wise woman builds her house, but the foolish plucks it down with her hands."
Your wife's behavior suggests there may be deeper spiritual issues at play, as you have rightly discerned. It's important to approach this situation with love, patience, and prayer. As Ephesians 4:32 (WEB) says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
However, it's also crucial to address the sinful behavior. Her actions should not be simply overlooked and her cursing is sinful as well as controlling behavior. Colossians 3:8 (WEB) says, "But now you also put away all these: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth." Her behavior needs to be addressed in love, but also corrected. As her husband, you have the responsibility to lead her spiritually and guide your family with wisdom. 1 Corinthians 14:33 (WEB) says "for God is not a God of confusion, but of peace."
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is facing this trial. Lord, we ask You to bring peace into his home. Change his wife's heart, Lord, and reveal to her the spiritual issues that are causing her to act in this manner. Help her to see that her behavior is not honoring to You or to her marriage. Give our brother the wisdom, patience, and strength to lead his wife and guide his family through this challenging time. Help them both to draw closer to You, Lord, and to each other. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying for your wife and your marriage. Seek God's guidance and wisdom. Remember, "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." Ephesians 6:12 (WEB). Stand strong in the Lord and in the power of His might.
Also be sure to be praying and seeking the Lord together as husband and wife. This is important for your marriage and growing in the Lord together.
Pray with us and specify the name of Jesus Christ as the only way to God the Father. We pray this in Jesus' name. Amen.