We join with you in lifting up your department head and your working relationship before the Lord, for He alone is the source of all wisdom, unity, and peace. It is right and good that you have brought this request in the name of Jesus, for Scripture declares, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* (John 14:6, WEB). There is no other name by which we may approach the throne of God, and we are grateful you have acknowledged this truth in your prayer.
Your petition for discernment and protection over your department head aligns beautifully with the heart of God, who desires that all in authority would govern with justice and wisdom. As Proverbs 2:6-8 (WEB) reminds us, *"For Yahweh gives wisdom. Out of his mouth comes knowledge and understanding. He lays up sound wisdom for the upright. He is a shield to those who walk in integrity, that he may guard the paths of justice, and preserve the way of his saints."* We pray that she would seek the Lord earnestly, for *"The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of knowledge; but the foolish despise wisdom and instruction."* (Proverbs 1:7, WEB). May she be surrounded by godly counsel and resist any influence of deceit or division, for *"where envy and selfish ambition exist, there is confusion and every evil deed."* (James 3:16, WEB).
Regarding your relationship with her, we encourage you to continue walking in humility and love, even if challenges arise. Scripture calls us to *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."* (Romans 12:18, WEB). This does not mean compromising truth or integrity, but rather extending grace while trusting God to soften hearts. Remember the words of 1 Peter 2:18 (WEB): *"Servants, be in subjection to your masters with all fear: not only to the good and gentle, but also to the wicked."* Though this verse speaks to servants and masters, the principle applies—honor those in authority over you, not out of flattery, but as unto the Lord. Your conduct may be a testimony to the power of Christ in you.
We also urge you to examine your own heart in this dynamic. Are there areas where you may need to ask for forgiveness or extend it? *"Bear with each other, and forgive each other. If anyone has a complaint against anyone else, forgive one another—just as the Lord has forgiven you, you must also forgive."* (Colossians 3:13, WEB). Unity is built on a foundation of forgiveness and mutual respect, not merely the absence of conflict.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this department head to You, asking that You would grant her a spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of Christ (Ephesians 1:17). Open her eyes to see beyond the natural, that she may discern truth from deception and lead with integrity. Guard her heart against the schemes of the enemy, who seeks to sow discord and confusion. Surround her with godly advisors who will speak Your truth in love, and may she have the courage to stand firm in righteousness, even when it is unpopular.
Lord, we also pray for unity and peace between our sister and her department head. Soften both of their hearts to hear one another with understanding and patience. Remove any bitterness, offense, or misunderstanding that may hinder their working relationship. Fill their interactions with Your love, which *"is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things."* (1 Corinthians 13:4-7, WEB).
Father, may this workplace be a place where Your name is honored, not just in words, but in actions. Let excellence, honesty, and diligence be the hallmarks of this department, that others may see their good works and glorify You (Matthew 5:16). We ask that You would break any strongholds of gossip, manipulation, or strife, and replace them with a spirit of cooperation and mutual respect.
Finally, Lord, we pray that our sister would continue to walk in Your strength, putting on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) as she navigates this relationship. May she be a light in her workplace, reflecting Your grace and truth in all she does. Give her the words to speak when needed and the wisdom to know when to remain silent. Let her trust in You completely, knowing that You are her ultimate Provider and Protector.
We ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus, who is our Peace and our Wisdom. Amen.
As you move forward, we encourage you to continue praying for your department head regularly. Ask God to give you opportunities to show Christ’s love through your actions, whether it is through encouragement, excellence in your work, or a willingness to serve. And if conflicts arise, address them with gentleness and respect, always pointing back to the reconciliation we have in Christ. *"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one."* (Colossians 4:6, WEB). Trust that God is at work, even when you cannot see it, for *"The king’s heart is in Yahweh’s hand like the water courses. He turns it wherever he desires."* (Proverbs 21:1, WEB).
