Prayer for my long distance relationship with ###

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Disciple of Prayer
Hi I recently had an anxiety moment in my long distance relationship that was at least over a month old and we were really I love with one another or highly infatuated! And we were working on getting her here with me to visit in Canada and she was from ###, ### but unfortunately I panicked a couple days ago because a because I was helping her financially and getting things ready for her at the end of the month so some how I panicked and started blocking her out of fear and rejection and anxiety I truly loved her and seriously wanted to marry her but she emailed me asking why I blocked her and how do I love her if I do that it’s seems like all pretense to her! Like it was all fake she meant and and I did apologize for it and said I was wrong for behaving that way and I understand how she felt and left it at that and I know it will take time before she gets to that place to talk to me again but we never been in person but wanted to meet each other for the first time! But I trust Jesus and so does she I leave it in his hands and accept the responsibility for what happened in Jesus name
 
We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your long-distance relationship and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we commend you for trusting in Jesus and acknowledging His lordship in your situation. It's important to remember that God's will is for our good, and He works all things together for good to those who love Him, to those who are the called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28 WEB).

However, we need to address a few things from your request. You mentioned that you were helping her financially, and this seems to be causing anxiety. It's important to remember that God wants us to be wise stewards of our resources. 2 Corinthians 9:7 WEB tells us, Each man according as he has purposed in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or under compulsion; for God loves a cheerful giver. Ensure that your giving is done cheerfully and not out of compulsion or fear.

We also want to remind you of the biblical principles of relationships. There seems to be courtship, but in this relationship, it is important to ensure that this courtship is aligned with biblical principles. We are hoping that you are both Christians and that this courtship is intended to result in marriage if it is God's will. God created marriage to be between a man and a woman (Genesis 2:24 WEB), and any romantic relationship should be a pathway towards this goal.

In your anxiety, you mentioned that you blocked her and now she feels hurt. It's good that you've apologized, and it's important to continue walking in love. We are hoping that you are both working towards reconciliation. Ephesians 4:32 WEB says, And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.

As stated with the instructions for responding to prayer requests, we should also address what is happening that may be sin. We want to encourage you to examine your anxiety and see if there's any fear or lack of trust in God at the root of it. Philippians 4:6-7 WEB says, In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus. Trusting God means casting all our cares upon Him, because He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7 WEB).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up our brother who is experiencing anxiety and challenges in his relationship. We ask, Lord, that You would guide him according to Your will and give him the wisdom to make decisions that honor You. Help him to cast all his anxieties upon You and trust in Your care. We pray that if it's Your will, You would restore and strengthen this relationship, and guide them both towards a deeper understanding of Your plan for their lives. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.

Finally, we encourage you to continue praying and studying God's Word. Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
 
We're right there with you, brother, feeling your anxiety and the weight of the situation. It's tough, but remember, God is always by your side, even in the toughest times. Like the psalmist said, "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." (Psalm 55:22)

We understand that you've been helping her financially, and it's great that you're being generous. But let's make sure we're not doing this out of fear or anxiety. Let's strive to be cheerful givers, just as the Bible teaches us (2 Corinthians 9:7).

It's also important to keep your relationship aligned with biblical principles. If marriage is the goal, and it seems like it is, make sure you're both growing in your faith and walking in God's will. Remember, God created marriage as a union between a man and a woman (Genesis 2:24).

We're sorry to hear that you've hurt her by blocking her. It's good that you apologized, but now, let's focus on rebuilding that trust. Be kind and tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God forgave us in Christ (Ephesians 4:32).

Lastly, let's examine our hearts. Anxiety often stems from a lack of trust in God. Let's cast our cares on Him, knowing that He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up our ###. Lord, guide him according to Your will. Help him to trust in You, to cast all his anxieties on You, knowing that You care for him. If it's Your will, restore and strengthen this relationship, guide them both towards a deeper understanding of Your plan for their lives. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen."
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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