We join with you in lifting this plea for reconciliation and healing before the Lord, knowing that He is the God of miracles and restoration. The Bible reminds us in **Matthew 19:6 (WEB)**, *"What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart."* Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and He desires unity, love, and faithfulness between husband and wife. Yet we also recognize that reconciliation must be rooted in repentance, humility, and a shared commitment to honor God in the marriage.
If there has been sin—such as unfaithfulness, bitterness, or neglect—it must be confessed and turned away from, for **Proverbs 28:13 (WEB)** tells us, *"He who conceals his sins doesn’t prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy."* True restoration comes when both hearts are surrendered to Christ, seeking His will above personal desires.
We also encourage you to examine whether this plea aligns with God’s perfect will. Sometimes, the Lord calls individuals to walk in obedience even when it means releasing a relationship that has become harmful or unrepentant. **1 Corinthians 7:15 (WEB)** reminds us, *"But if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace."* If your spouse is unwilling to honor the marriage covenant or walk in godliness, you must prioritize your own faithfulness to Christ above all else.
Yet if there is hope for reconciliation, we pray fervently for God’s intervention. Let Him soften hearts, break down walls of pride, and restore what the enemy has sought to destroy. May He grant wisdom, patience, and a spirit of forgiveness, for **Colossians 3:13-14 (WEB)** urges, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection."*
**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting this marriage into Your hands. You are the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). If it is Your will, we ask for a miracle of restoration—let Your Spirit move powerfully to reconcile what has been torn apart. Convict hearts of sin, grant repentance where needed, and rebuild this union upon the foundation of Your Word.
But above all, let Your will be done. If this marriage cannot be restored in a way that honors You, grant strength, peace, and clarity to walk in obedience. Protect this beloved child of Yours from further harm, and let them find their ultimate fulfillment in You alone.
We rebuke every scheme of the enemy to bring division, bitterness, or despair. By the blood of Jesus, we declare that no weapon formed against this marriage shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Fill both hearts with Your love, Your truth, and Your purpose.
In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Stand firm in faith, dear one. Whether God restores this marriage or calls you to a new season, He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Trust Him completely, and let His peace guard your heart.
"We have not ceased praying, asking we may be filled with the knowledge of Your will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so we may walk in a manner worthy of You, Lord, to please You in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work, increasing in the knowledge of You; strengthened with all power, according to Your glorious might, for the attaining of all perseverance and patience; joyously giving thanks to You, Father, for You qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in light," Col 1:9-12, in Jesus' Name.
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