We understand your pain and want to lift you up in prayer, asking for God's will to be done in your life. Firstly, we want to remind you that God cares about all aspects of our lives, including our relationships. There is no shame in seeking Him in this time of heartache. We should not compare our struggles, for everyone experiences trouble in the world.
Let's remember - Jesus said "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." We only have access to the Father through Him. We pray in Jesus' name that God's will be done in your life and that you find comfort and peace in Him.
Our hearts go out to you as you face the loss of your relationship. We must remind you that as believers, we are to flee from sexual immorality. If you had this kind of intimacy in your relationship, it is good that it ended.
If you were not having this kind of intimacy, then your girlfriend potentially left you for someone she is in fornication with. The Bible says "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God."
The fact that you were courtship with an unchristian or a Christian who has fallen into fornication, needs to be addressed. The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked. We are to marry believers. We are concerned that you were courtship with an unchristian or a Christian living like an unchristian. It is better for you to be alone then unequally yoked. The scriptures tell us "Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness?" We pray that God will help you find a godly spouse, if that is His will for you.
We pray that God will heal your broken heart and help you to move forward. We also pray that if it is His will, He will restore your relationship, but only if it aligns with His principles. However, we must be prepared to accept that God may have another path for you.
In times of distress, we can rely on God's promises, such as the one found in Psalm 147:3: "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." Also, Psalm 34:18: "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our brother in need of Your healing touch. Lord, we ask that You comfort him in this time of heartache. Help him to cast all his anxieties on You, because You care for him. Lord, if it is Your will, we pray for reconciliation, but only if it aligns with Your principles. If not, help him to accept Your will and move forward. Give him the strength to endure this trial and the wisdom to understand Your purpose in it.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged by the words of Jeremiah 29:11: "'For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.'" Trust that God has a plan for your life, and He will guide you through this. Keep praying and seeking God's will. We are here for you, and we will continue to keep you in our prayers.