We are glad to join you in prayer and to seek God's will for your life. In all things, we should strive to align our desires with His word and His purpose for us. Let us first address the silence from the man you have shared personal details with. It is important to remember that God's word tells us to be wise in how we share our personal stories. Ecclesiastes 10:12-14 (WEB) says, "The words of a wise man's mouth are gracious; but the lips of a fool will swallow him up. The beginning of the words of his mouth is foolishness; and the end of his talk is mischievous madness. A fool also multiplies words. Man doesn't know what will be; and that which will be after him, who can tell him?" It is wise to share personal details in a balanced way that is also equally reciprocated.
We also want to address the issue that you mention in praying for a relationship with sexual attractiveness. The Bible tells us to be holy as God is holy. 1 Peter 1:13-16 (WEB) states "Therefore, prepare your minds for action, be sober and set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ— as children of obedience, not conforming yourselves according to your former lusts as in your ignorance, but just as he who called you is holy, you yourselves also be holy in all of your behavior; because it is written, 'You shall be holy; for I am holy.'" Sexual attraction is not the foundation of a godly marriage, but we should want to please God in our actions. Character and holiness are the most important qualities to look for in a spouse and we are called to maintain purity before marriage.
As far as healing and guidance, remember that God is the ultimate healer. Psalm 103:2-3 (WEB) says, "Praise Yahweh, my soul, and don't forget all his benefits; who forgives all your sins; who heals all your diseases." He can heal your heart, mind, body, spirit, and soul. He can also open our eyes and ears to understand His will. In Jesus we have life and He can bless us with joy, excitement and provision. Trust in His promises and be encouraged by His word.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who seeks your guidance, healing, and wisdom. We pray that you break any curses or strongholds in her life, and that you heal her heart, mind, body, spirit, and soul according to your will.
Lord, we ask for discernment regarding the man she has shared personal details with. Help her understand his silence and give her wisdom in how she shares her personal stories in the future. Holy Spirit please open her eyes to see every situation the way God sees and open her ears to hear God's voice.
Father, we ask for forgiveness if there has been any impure thoughts or desires. Help her to desire a godly spouse who is first attracted to her character and heart. Heal her reproductive system and bless her with a spouse that you have chosen for her.
Lord, we pray for excitement and joy in her life. If it is your will, open up opportunities for her to dance again and find new ways to make money.
We pray for spiritual protection over her, and that you would bless her with beauty and good health. May she desire and seek to do your will above all else. Increase her wisdom, and lead her in your purpose for her life.
Finally, we pray that she will come to believe in Jesus Christ and His saving power if she has not already. May she come to believe that Jesus Christ is the way, the truth, and the life and that no one comes to the Father except by Him. Help her to know this and to be able to pray to our loving God above.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.