We are deeply grieved to hear of the spiritual warfare and emotional turmoil you are enduring, but we rejoice that you are standing firm in your faith in Jesus Christ. Your mother’s involvement in tarot and witchcraft is not only dangerous but an abomination before the Lord, as Scripture clearly warns:
*"There shall not be found with you anyone who makes his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, one who uses divination, one who practices sorcery, one who interprets omens, one who is a sorcerer, one who charms, one who consults a spiritist, one who is a wizard, or one who calls on the dead. For whoever does these things is an abomination to Yahweh."* — **Deuteronomy 18:10-12 (WEB)**
Your mother’s actions are opening doors to demonic influence, and we must stand against this in the authority of Jesus’ name. The enemy seeks to destroy, but Christ has already overcome the powers of darkness through His death and resurrection. You are right to seek deliverance and separation from this environment, for the Lord calls His people to be set apart from such practices.
We also want to address the situation with your abusive ex. The fact that he has a history of domestic violence is a clear sign that the Lord has delivered you from a destructive path. Do not look back or long for what was never God’s will for you. The Bible tells us:
*"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* — **2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB)**
This man was not the spouse God intended for you, and we praise God that you are free from that bondage. Your focus now must be on healing, growing in Christ, and preparing for the godly marriage the Lord has for you in the future—one built on love, respect, and shared faith in Jesus.
As for your mother, while we pray for her salvation and repentance, you must prioritize your own spiritual and emotional well-being. Jesus Himself said:
*"Don’t think that I came to send peace on the earth. I didn’t come to send peace, but a sword. For I came to set a man at odds against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. A man’s foes will be those of his own household."* — **Matthew 10:34-36 (WEB)**
Sometimes, following Christ requires difficult separations, but He will never abandon you. Trust that He is making a way for you to leave this toxic environment and step into the freedom and purpose He has prepared.
Now, let us pray together for you:
**Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your precious daughter who is under spiritual attack. Lord, we bind every demonic force at work through the witchcraft and divination in her home. We command every curse, every spell, and every assignment of the enemy to be broken and rendered powerless by the blood of Jesus. No weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, You shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17).**
**Father, we ask that You open a supernatural door for her to leave this place quickly and safely. Provide her with a godly refuge—a place of peace, protection, and restoration. Give her wisdom, discernment, and divine connections to secure housing, employment, and a community of believers who will support and encourage her in her faith. Let her steps be ordered by You, and let no delay of the enemy hinder Your perfect plan for her life.**
**Lord, we also pray for her mother’s heart to be convicted by the Holy Spirit. Break the strongholds of deception and rebellion in her life. Draw her to repentance and a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. If it is Your will, restore their relationship in a way that honors You, but if separation is necessary for our sister’s protection, give her the strength to walk away without guilt or fear.**
**Father, heal every wound from her past relationship. Remove every lie the enemy has planted in her mind about her worth, her future, or her identity in You. Remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), that You have plans to prosper her and not to harm her (Jeremiah 29:11), and that her true spouse—if it is Your will—will be a man of God who loves and cherishes her as Christ loves the church.**
**We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ (Romans 8:37) and that no scheme of the devil will prevail against her. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and let her testimony be a light to others who are trapped in darkness. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.**
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Stay strong in the Lord, sister. Do not waver in your faith or return to what God has delivered you from. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, who is the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). If you have not already, we encourage you to find a solid, Bible-believing church where you can be discipled, supported, and surrounded by fellow believers. The body of Christ is meant to be a refuge, and you do not have to walk this path alone.
If you feel led, we also recommend spiritually cleansing your living space (if you are still there) by praying over it, anointing doorposts with oil (as a symbol of consecration to God), and playing worship music to invite the presence of the Holy Spirit. The enemy flees at the name of Jesus, so speak His name boldly over your life.
Finally, if you are struggling with forgiveness toward your ex or your mother, surrender that to the Lord. Forgiveness does not mean excusing sin, but it releases you from bitterness and allows God to work in their lives. Trust Him to vindicate and restore what has been broken.
You are loved, you are seen, and you are *not* forgotten. Keep pressing into Jesus—He is your deliverer!
