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I would like everyone that views this to pray for my daughter and me. Pray to keep her safe and to help her see what is the right thing to do.
She has gotten involved with a young girl who is her best friend. The friend has decided she doesn't want to have that type of relationship and my daughter has acted out in a very violent way. She has physically and mentally acted out against the friend and me because I don't support her in this act and I have banned the friend from my house.
I am a single parent who has raised my daughter by myself since she was 1 along with my supportive family. Everyone has invested their lives and sacrificed greatly to allow her to shine.
To all the people who think this act is OK, I want you to understand how it ruins relationships and divides families.
I'm not a stupid person who doesn't understand that some people have physical reasons or mental reasons for making the choice of being with the same sex. That is not the case with my daughter. It's true she was the "tomboy" and "sporty", but just because she possesses those talents doesn't mean she has to be pegged as a lesbian. She is a beautiful, smart, talented young lady. Why does society puts this "label" on a girl just because she doesn't want to be a cheerleader and wear makeup?
She is making this choice because society has said that it's no big deal. It's alright. It's whatever you want to do. Her other friends are doing it, so what's the big deal? Also, she's 19 and she's gonna do what she wants when she wants to do it. I see more and more young girls and young men announce that they have made their decision about who they are spending the rest of their life with at a very young age. During the years when they are trying to find their way in the world, they feel more comfortable with same sex individuals for one reason or the other and at the same time their bodies are developing sexually and then one thing leads to another. I get it. I understand how it happens. Then, before you know it, your beautiful daughter who has beautiful long hair, cuts it short, then she starts walking and talking more like a man so she can "play" the part of a man in the relationship and then the "friend" gets to play the part of the pretty feminine wife. And your son who might not have the most masculine traits and not the quarterback of the football team start to think, well people think I look like a fag, so I might be, or it's just easier to assume that role because it's where I fit in.
Famous people have shoved this down our throats and tried to make it ok. Ellen Degeneres, Rosie O'Donnell....and even Oprah.....thanks to you saying that it's alright to the world....and everybody that thinks it's OK.
I would like you to know how bad this hurts. The only daughter I have...the only person that I have loved, devoted my life to, cherished...sacrificed, devoted my life to.... I just want you to know....it's not alright.
It's Christmas, and I want my daughter with me and the family that has loved her dearly all these years. But I am sitting here crying my eyes out with a broken heart because I told my daughter her "friend" can't stay here. My daughter yelled out all kinds of horrible hurtful things, packed and left. I don't know where she is at. I don't know if she is OK. She is only 19 years old. I don't know if she will ever come back home.
To all of you out there suffering this same plight, it's awful. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. The hurt I'm feeling can't be alright. It can't be "no big deal". It can't be that I'm just a small minded person. It can't be ok just because everyone else is doing it.
I feel so betrayed. I let her best friend into my house all this time and was like a mother to her because she didn't have a nicer home to go.
Why does someone who is trying to help and be nice to someone get taken advantage of and deceived? I'm so hurt, I don't know if I will ever stop crying.
Don't any lesbian or gay man even try to tell me that God loves everybody! I know that! This can't be right. I have seen this destroy several families. How can something that hurts so badly be right? This is not a tatoo, this is not trying drugs, this is not drinking alcohol, this is not getting a DUI. This is not an unplanned pregnancy.
Let's just say it. This is having sex in an unnatural way. This is loving a person of the same sex and then having sex with them. This can not be right. Don't even try to tell me this is ok. I am so disgusted even thinking about my daughter doing this. And now because I don't agree and won't allow this to happen in my house, I have lost the most important person in my whole life. I feel like my heart has been jerked out of my chest and ripped to shreds.
Now I'm having to deal with a daughter whose heart is also broken because the friend has decided she wants to go back to her boyfriend. She gets to walk away and life goes on for her.
Now I have to worry not only about what my daughter my do to her but what she might do to herself. She is very out of control and dangerous. She has threatened to kill her and the boyfriend. She has abandoned all she has been taught. My house has turned from a normal, loving, house to a Jerry Springer episode. I'm at a lose.
How can this happen to our family and how in God's name can this be alright. How am I supposed to say, it's whatever you want to do with your life? If you want to lie in the bed with your best girlfriend and have unnatural sex, it's ok with me? Because if I don't allow you to do all this and accept all this, I don't love you for what you are? Because I don't allow this, I'm old fashioned? Because I don't allow this, I am a bad mother and I'm going to have to answer to God for not accepting my daughter's decision?
This all is the most absurd and unbelievable crap I've ever had to deal with! God, I need you to remove this hurtful and insane stuff from my daughter's brain and body and from my life!!!
She has gotten involved with a young girl who is her best friend. The friend has decided she doesn't want to have that type of relationship and my daughter has acted out in a very violent way. She has physically and mentally acted out against the friend and me because I don't support her in this act and I have banned the friend from my house.
I am a single parent who has raised my daughter by myself since she was 1 along with my supportive family. Everyone has invested their lives and sacrificed greatly to allow her to shine.
To all the people who think this act is OK, I want you to understand how it ruins relationships and divides families.
I'm not a stupid person who doesn't understand that some people have physical reasons or mental reasons for making the choice of being with the same sex. That is not the case with my daughter. It's true she was the "tomboy" and "sporty", but just because she possesses those talents doesn't mean she has to be pegged as a lesbian. She is a beautiful, smart, talented young lady. Why does society puts this "label" on a girl just because she doesn't want to be a cheerleader and wear makeup?
She is making this choice because society has said that it's no big deal. It's alright. It's whatever you want to do. Her other friends are doing it, so what's the big deal? Also, she's 19 and she's gonna do what she wants when she wants to do it. I see more and more young girls and young men announce that they have made their decision about who they are spending the rest of their life with at a very young age. During the years when they are trying to find their way in the world, they feel more comfortable with same sex individuals for one reason or the other and at the same time their bodies are developing sexually and then one thing leads to another. I get it. I understand how it happens. Then, before you know it, your beautiful daughter who has beautiful long hair, cuts it short, then she starts walking and talking more like a man so she can "play" the part of a man in the relationship and then the "friend" gets to play the part of the pretty feminine wife. And your son who might not have the most masculine traits and not the quarterback of the football team start to think, well people think I look like a fag, so I might be, or it's just easier to assume that role because it's where I fit in.
Famous people have shoved this down our throats and tried to make it ok. Ellen Degeneres, Rosie O'Donnell....and even Oprah.....thanks to you saying that it's alright to the world....and everybody that thinks it's OK.
I would like you to know how bad this hurts. The only daughter I have...the only person that I have loved, devoted my life to, cherished...sacrificed, devoted my life to.... I just want you to know....it's not alright.
It's Christmas, and I want my daughter with me and the family that has loved her dearly all these years. But I am sitting here crying my eyes out with a broken heart because I told my daughter her "friend" can't stay here. My daughter yelled out all kinds of horrible hurtful things, packed and left. I don't know where she is at. I don't know if she is OK. She is only 19 years old. I don't know if she will ever come back home.
To all of you out there suffering this same plight, it's awful. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. The hurt I'm feeling can't be alright. It can't be "no big deal". It can't be that I'm just a small minded person. It can't be ok just because everyone else is doing it.
I feel so betrayed. I let her best friend into my house all this time and was like a mother to her because she didn't have a nicer home to go.
Why does someone who is trying to help and be nice to someone get taken advantage of and deceived? I'm so hurt, I don't know if I will ever stop crying.
Don't any lesbian or gay man even try to tell me that God loves everybody! I know that! This can't be right. I have seen this destroy several families. How can something that hurts so badly be right? This is not a tatoo, this is not trying drugs, this is not drinking alcohol, this is not getting a DUI. This is not an unplanned pregnancy.
Let's just say it. This is having sex in an unnatural way. This is loving a person of the same sex and then having sex with them. This can not be right. Don't even try to tell me this is ok. I am so disgusted even thinking about my daughter doing this. And now because I don't agree and won't allow this to happen in my house, I have lost the most important person in my whole life. I feel like my heart has been jerked out of my chest and ripped to shreds.
Now I'm having to deal with a daughter whose heart is also broken because the friend has decided she wants to go back to her boyfriend. She gets to walk away and life goes on for her.
Now I have to worry not only about what my daughter my do to her but what she might do to herself. She is very out of control and dangerous. She has threatened to kill her and the boyfriend. She has abandoned all she has been taught. My house has turned from a normal, loving, house to a Jerry Springer episode. I'm at a lose.
How can this happen to our family and how in God's name can this be alright. How am I supposed to say, it's whatever you want to do with your life? If you want to lie in the bed with your best girlfriend and have unnatural sex, it's ok with me? Because if I don't allow you to do all this and accept all this, I don't love you for what you are? Because I don't allow this, I'm old fashioned? Because I don't allow this, I am a bad mother and I'm going to have to answer to God for not accepting my daughter's decision?
This all is the most absurd and unbelievable crap I've ever had to deal with! God, I need you to remove this hurtful and insane stuff from my daughter's brain and body and from my life!!!
