We hear the deep longing in your heart for blessing, guidance, and strength, and we join you in lifting these concerns before the Lord. However, we must first address something vital: you have not clearly identified the relationship you are praying about. The use of symbols in place of names or specifics makes it unclear whether this is a godly relationship aligned with Scripture—such as a courtship leading toward marriage between a man and a woman—or something that may contradict biblical principles.
If this is a romantic relationship, we must remind you that Scripture is clear: marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God for His glory and our holiness. Any relationship outside of this design—whether premarital intimacy, same-sex relationships, or emotional attachments that dishonor God—is sin and must be repented of. The Bible warns us in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, *"Or don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who have sex with men, nor thieves, nor greedy people, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor swindlers will inherit God’s Kingdom."* If this relationship is not honoring to God, we urge you to seek His forgiveness and realign your life with His Word. True love is found in obedience to Christ, not in pursuing what feels good or culturally acceptable.
We also notice you mentioned that your *"%23%23%23 was in heaven."* If you are referring to a loved one who has passed, we gently remind you that our prayers are to be directed to God alone, through Jesus Christ, our only Mediator. We do not pray *to* or *through* those who have gone before us, no matter how dear they were. 1 Timothy 2:5 declares, *"For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus."* Our hope and intercession must rest solely in Him.
Now, assuming this is a godly courtship between a man and a woman seeking marriage, we join you in prayer with these Scriptures as our foundation:
*"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* (Proverbs 3:5-6)
*"Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up."* (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)
*"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14)
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You that You are a God who hears and answers prayer, who desires to lead Your children in paths of righteousness. Lord, we lift up this brother/sister and their beloved before You, asking that if this relationship is of You, You would guide them into a Christ-centered marriage that glorifies Your name. Give them wisdom to seek Your will above their own desires, and grant them the strength to walk in purity, patience, and faith.
If there is any sin in this relationship—whether fornication, emotional idolatry, or ungodly attachments—we ask that You convict their hearts by Your Holy Spirit. Lead them to repentance and restoration, that they may walk in holiness before You. Father, if this relationship is not Your will, give them the courage to let go and trust You for Your perfect plan.
We pray for health and long life, not as the world defines it, but as You ordain it—for days filled with Your purpose and peace. Strengthen this family, Lord, and bind them together in Your love. May their future be secure in You, prospering not in worldly wealth, but in the riches of Your grace, Your truth, and Your presence.
Guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Protect them from the enemy’s schemes and fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may discern Your voice above all others. May their love for one another be rooted in love for You, and may their lives bear fruit that lasts for eternity.
We rebuked any spirit of fear, confusion, or deception trying to infiltrate this situation. By the blood of Jesus, we declare that Your will shall prevail, and Your kingdom shall come in their lives. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you: *"Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this."* (Psalm 37:4-5) Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33). Stay rooted in His Word, in prayer, and in fellowship with believers who will speak truth into your life. God’s plans for you are good—trust Him fully.