We are grateful to stand with you in prayer, lifting this request before our Heavenly Father, who hears and answers according to His perfect will. It is beautiful to see your trust in Jesus and your willingness to carry this burden as you seek His guidance for your future. We commend you for your faith and your desire to honor God in your pursuit of marriage, which is a sacred covenant designed by Him.
Before we pray, let us first consider what Scripture says about marriage and the choices we make. The Bible teaches that we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), for how can light live with darkness? A godly marriage is built on a shared foundation of faith in Christ, where both spouses are committed to following Him. We must ask: Is this man you wish to marry a born-again believer who walks in obedience to Christ? Does he love the Lord with all his heart, soul, and mind, and is he actively seeking to live according to God’s Word? If he is not, we urge you to reconsider, for a marriage without Christ at its center will face struggles that are far greater than what you are experiencing now. The Lord calls us to seek His kingdom first (Matthew 6:33), and in doing so, He promises to provide all we need—including a spouse who will lead you closer to Him.
If this man is indeed a brother in Christ, then we rejoice with you in this confirmation. However, we must also address the matter of your parents’ concerns. The Bible commands us to honor our father and mother (Exodus 20:12), and their hesitation may be something the Lord is using to protect you or to refine your faith. Have you sought their counsel with humility, asking why they resist this union? Sometimes, parents see things we do not, and their wisdom—though hard to accept—can spare us from future pain. Proverbs 11:14 tells us, "Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is safety." It may be wise to involve a pastor or godly mentor to help mediate this conversation, ensuring that all parties are seeking the Lord’s will above their own desires.
We also encourage you to examine your heart: Are you placing this man or the desire for marriage above your devotion to Christ? Our greatest joy and fulfillment must come from Him alone, not from any earthly relationship. Psalm 37:4 says, "Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." When our hearts are aligned with His, He shapes our desires to match His perfect plan. If this marriage is His will, He will soften your parents’ hearts in His timing. But if it is not, He will redirect your steps to something far better than you could imagine.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who seeks Your will for her life and her future marriage. Lord, You know her heart, her desires, and the struggles she faces with her parents. We ask that You grant her wisdom, discernment, and patience as she waits on You. If this man is the spouse You have ordained for her, we pray that You would soften her parents’ hearts and open their eyes to see Your hand in this union. Give them peace and assurance that this marriage will glorify You.
But Father, if this relationship is not Your will, we ask that You would give her the strength to surrender it to You. Protect her from making decisions out of emotion rather than obedience to Your Word. Remind her that Your plans for her are good, and that You will never withhold anything that is truly best for her (Psalm 84:11). Surround her with godly counsel and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
We rebuke any fear, anxiety, or impatience that may be creeping into her heart. Replace it with trust in You, Lord, knowing that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). Strengthen her to honor her parents even in this difficult season, and give her the words to speak that will bring unity and understanding.
Finally, Father, we pray that You would prepare her now to be a godly wife, rooted in Your Word and filled with Your Spirit. Teach her to love as You love—selflessly, patiently, and with grace. May her future marriage be a testament to Your faithfulness and a light to those around her.
We ask all this in the precious name of Jesus, who is the author and perfecter of our faith. Amen.
We will continue to pray for you, trusting that the Lord will guide you every step of the way. Stay rooted in His Word, seek His face daily, and remember that His timing is perfect. If you feel led, share with us whether this man is a believer and how we can pray more specifically for your situation. May the Lord bless you and keep you as you wait on Him.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
