We join with you in lifting up your heartfelt requests to our Heavenly Father, who hears and answers the prayers of His children. Your gratitude for His provision and your desire for a deeper walk with Him are beautiful reflections of a heart seeking His will. We are encouraged by your faith as you trust Him for greater blessings in your career and relationships. However, we must address a few things with love and truth, grounded in Scripture, so that your prayers align fully with God’s perfect will.
First, we rejoice with you in your gratitude for your current job and your trust that God has something even better for you. The Lord delights in blessing His children when they seek Him first. As Jesus teaches in Matthew 6:33, *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."* We pray that as you seek His kingdom, He will open doors of opportunity that align with His purpose for your life. Remember Proverbs 3:5-6: *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Let this be your foundation as you wait on Him for the right job—one that not only provides for your needs but also allows you to glorify Him in your work.
We also hear your longing to reconnect with someone from your past, someone you feel you did not appreciate as you should have. While it is natural to reflect on past relationships with regret or fondness, we must approach this with wisdom and discernment. The Bible warns us in Philippians 3:13-14, *"Brothers, I don’t regard myself as yet having taken hold, but one thing I do. Forgetting the things which are behind and stretching forward to the things which are before, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."* Dwelling on past relationships—especially if they are not aligned with God’s design for marriage—can hinder the new work God wants to do in your life.
If this person was not a believer or if the relationship was not centered on Christ and the goal of godly marriage, we must caution you against reopening doors that God may have closed for your protection and growth. 2 Corinthians 6:14 reminds us, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* Your desire for love and connection is God-given, but it must be fulfilled in His way and in His timing. Instead of seeking to rekindle what was, pray that God would prepare you for the spouse He has for you—a man of God who will lead you both closer to Christ. Ask the Lord to heal any lingering emotional ties to the past so that you can be fully open to the future He has planned.
We also notice that while you ended your prayer with *"in the blessed name of Jesus,"* the body of your prayer did not directly address Jesus or acknowledge Him as the sole mediator between you and the Father. This is a critical truth we must emphasize. Jesus Himself declares in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."* And in John 16:23-24, He says, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full."* It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father, and it is by His name alone that we are saved and our prayers are heard. We encourage you to always come boldly before the throne of grace, but to do so through Jesus, who is our intercessor (Hebrews 4:14-16).
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister to You, thanking You for her heart of gratitude and her desire to walk more closely with You. Lord, we ask that You deepen her relationship with You through Jesus Christ, her Savior. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit and let the fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—abound in her life (Galatians 5:22-23). Guide her steps as she seeks a new job, and open doors that no man can shut. Provide for her in ways that exceed her expectations, and let her work be a testimony of Your goodness and faithfulness.
Father, we also pray for her heart as she reflects on the past. Heal any wounds or regrets, and help her to release anything that is not of You. If there are unresolved emotions, we ask that You would bring closure and peace. Guard her heart against distractions or desires that do not align with Your will. Prepare her for the godly spouse You have for her, and let her trust in Your timing. Surround her with believers who will encourage her and hold her accountable to Your Word.
We rebuke any spirit of longing for what is behind, and we declare that her future is bright in You. Let her eyes be fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of her faith (Hebrews 12:2). Strengthen her to walk in obedience, and let her find her fulfillment in You alone.
In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.