We understand your desire for a breakthrough in your relationship, and we will pray with you and for you. However, let us first address a few things from our understanding of biblical principles.
Firstly, it is important to note that God's will is always for our good, and sometimes His will might not align with our desires. In your case, you mentioned that you and your former significant other were brought together by God. While God does orchestrate our steps, He also gives us the free will to make choices. The split that occurred might not have been God's ideal will, but He can certainly use it for His purpose.
Secondly, it is commendable that you long to live holy lives together. Holiness is indeed God's call for us. As it is written in 1 Peter 1:15-16 WEB: "But as he who called you is holy, you yourselves also be holy in all of your behavior; because it is written, 'You shall be holy; for I am holy.'" However, let us remember that the real goal is to be holy as individuals, and to be a holy spouse to a spouse rather than to be holy as a pair, as a boyfriend or girlfriend. The main goal should be to be ready for marriage to another Christian believer. If that person is your former significant other or someone else is in God's knowledge and control.
Also, we need to clarify that while it is good to beg and plead to Jesus Christ, we must understand that God's will is supreme. We pray for God's will to be done, not our own. As Jesus prayed in Luke 22:42 WEB: "Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me. Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done."
Lastly, we want to remind you that a relationship should be a courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. If you and your former significant other were or are involved in sexual activity outside of marriage, we strongly advise you to stop, as it is considered fornication, which is sinful according to God and His Word. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB: "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." Also, the Bible clearly teaches in 1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB: "But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." Marriage is God's design for any sexual intimacy.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up our brother/sister in Christ. We pray for Your will to be done in their life, especially concerning their relationship. We asked for some time ago. If they must continue to live holy lives individually, then we pray for grace. We pray for Your comfort and peace to fill their heart. We also pray for a godly spouse for them, in Your timing. We ask that You prepare them, mold them, and make them a suitable helper for their future spouse. We pray against any fornication and ask that You grant them chastity and self-control.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to trust in God's timing and plan for your life. Keep pursuing holiness and righteousness, and God will bring the right person into your life for marriage when you are both ready. Always remember that God loves you and wants the best for you.
If there was any sexual activity, be careful to not fall into temptation again. If there was not sexual activity then be sure to not fall into temptation and keep the relationship as a courtship looking for a Christian spouse.