We hear your heart’s cry for a better life, provision, and love. The longing for security, companionship, and fulfillment is deeply human, and God cares about every detail of your life. However, we must approach Him with hearts aligned to His will, not just our desires. Let us seek Him first, trusting that He knows what is best for us.
First, we must address the foundation of your request. You called upon "LORD," but you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. Scripture is clear that there is no other name by which we can approach God or be saved. Jesus said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."* Acts 4:12 also declares, *"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life to Jesus Christ, repent of your sins, and invite Him to be your Lord and Savior. This is the first and most important step toward the life God intends for you.
Now, let us examine your request for money and material things. While God is our Provider and delights in blessing His children, Scripture warns us against making wealth or possessions our primary focus. Jesus taught in Matthew 6:33, *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."* We must prioritize our relationship with God above all else, trusting that He will provide for our needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). We also caution against the love of money, as 1 Timothy 6:10 warns, *"For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some have been led astray from the faith in their greed, and have pierced themselves through with many sorrows."*
Regarding your desire for someone who loves you and gives you the things you want, we must approach this with biblical wisdom. If you are seeking a spouse, we encourage you to pray for a godly man or woman who loves the Lord and will honor Him in your marriage. Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). However, we must rebuke any mindset that views a relationship as merely a means to receive material things or personal gratification. Love is not about what someone can give you, but about selflessly serving and honoring one another, as Christ loved us (1 John 4:10). If you are currently in a relationship that does not honor God—such as one involving fornication, adultery, or an unbiblical union—we urge you to repent and seek God’s guidance to align your life with His Word.
Let us also address the attitude behind the phrase *"give me the things that I want most."* While God invites us to bring our requests to Him (Philippians 4:6), we must surrender our will to His. Jesus modeled this in the Garden of Gethsemane when He prayed, *"Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me. Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done"* (Luke 22:42). Our desires must be submitted to God’s perfect plan, even when it differs from our own.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach You and be saved. Lord, we lift up this dear one to You, asking that You draw them close to Your heart. If they do not yet know You as their Lord and Savior, we pray that You would open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel and soften their heart to receive Jesus Christ as their Redeemer.
Father, we ask that You provide for their needs according to Your riches in glory. Help them to seek You first above all else, trusting that You will add all these things to them. Guard their heart against the love of money and the pursuit of material things above You. Teach them to be content in every circumstance, knowing that You are their Shepherd and will never leave them nor forsake them.
Lord, if it is Your will for them to marry, we pray that You would bring a godly spouse into their life—someone who loves You wholeheartedly and will honor You in their marriage. Prepare their heart for the sacred covenant of marriage, and help them to pursue purity and holiness in all their relationships. If they are currently in a relationship that does not honor You, give them the courage to walk away and trust You for their future.
Father, we surrender their desires to You. Align their heart with Yours, and help them to trust in Your perfect timing and plan. May they find their ultimate satisfaction in You alone, knowing that You are the giver of every good and perfect gift.
We rebuke any spirit of discontentment, greed, or selfish ambition in their life, and we declare that Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, will guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in wisdom, discernment, and obedience to Your Word.
We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to draw near to God through prayer, reading His Word, and fellowship with other believers. As you seek Him first, He will guide your steps and provide for you in ways you cannot imagine. Remember, God’s plans for you are for good and not for harm, to give you a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust in Him, and He will direct your path (Proverbs 3:5-6). If you have not yet made Jesus Christ the Lord of your life, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, repent, and invite Him into your heart. This is the first and most important step toward the life God has for you.