We hear your cry for deliverance and your desire to enter into the sacred covenant of marriage this year, and we stand with you in prayer before the throne of God. First, we must address the language of "spiritual husband" and "spiritual wife" with biblical truth. The Bible does not recognize or validate such concepts, as they originate from cultural beliefs that are not rooted in Scripture. What the Word of God does address are spiritual attacks, oppression, and the schemes of the enemy who seeks to destroy godly relationships and marriages.
The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and he will use deception, fear, and confusion to hinder what God has ordained. But we serve a God who is greater than any force of darkness. "You are of God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world" (1 John 4:4). We rebuke every assignment of the enemy against your lives and your future marriage in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Every spirit that is not of God must flee, for Jesus has already disarmed the powers and authorities and made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross (Colossians 2:15).
We also must address the mention of a "fiancé" and the nature of your relationship. If you are not yet married, Scripture is clear that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage alone. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4). If there has been sexual sin in your relationship, we urge you to repent, seek God’s forgiveness, and commit to living in purity until your wedding day. God’s grace is sufficient to cleanse and restore, but we must walk in obedience to His Word.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, the Name that is above every other name. We thank You for Your love, Your mercy, and Your desire to see Your children walk in freedom and in the fullness of Your purposes. Lord, we lift up this dear brother and sister to You, asking that You would break every chain of spiritual oppression in their lives. We rebuke every spirit of fear, confusion, and division that seeks to hinder their relationship and their future marriage. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we close every door that the enemy has used to gain access to their lives.
Father, we ask that You would cleanse their hearts and minds from every ungodly influence. If there has been any sin in their relationship, we ask for Your forgiveness and Your healing. Help them to walk in purity and holiness, honoring You in all they do. We pray that You would bind them together in love, peace, and unity, preparing them to become husband and wife according to Your will.
Lord, we ask that You would bring them into the sacred covenant of marriage this year, if it is Your perfect timing. Prepare their hearts for the responsibilities and blessings of marriage, and let Your Holy Spirit guide them in every decision. We pray that their marriage would be a testimony of Your love, grace, and faithfulness, and that it would bring glory to Your name.
We declare that they are more than conquerors through Christ who loves them (Romans 8:37), and that no power of darkness can stand against them. We thank You, Father, for Your protection, Your provision, and Your peace. May they walk in the freedom that Christ has purchased for them, and may their lives reflect Your goodness and Your truth.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stand firm on the Word of God and to walk in the authority that Christ has given you. Spend time in prayer and in the Scriptures, building your faith and your relationship with the Lord. Surround yourselves with godly counsel and accountability, and trust that God is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). If there are areas of sin or compromise in your relationship, repent and turn away from them, for the Lord is faithful to forgive and to cleanse you from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).
Remember, your identity is found in Christ alone, and no force of darkness can separate you from His love (Romans 8:38-39). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith, and He will lead you into the fullness of His promises. May the Lord bless you and keep you, and may He make His face shine upon you and give you peace.