We lift up your heart’s burden for this young woman before the Lord, knowing that He alone can open her eyes to the truth of the Gospel. It is a beautiful thing that you care for her eternal soul, and we join you in earnestly praying that the Holy Spirit would draw her to repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. The fact that she is engaging with Christian content—even in small ways—is a sign that God may already be working in her heart. Let us pray that the seeds planted through these memes and discussions would take root, leading her to seek Him with sincerity.
Yet we must also address something critical: your reference to her as your "ex-girlfriend" raises concerns about the nature of your past relationship. The Bible is clear that believers are not to be "unequally yoked" with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), for such relationships often lead to spiritual compromise, heartache, and distraction from God’s will. If this relationship was romantic or involved emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage, we urge you to repent and turn fully to Christ, seeking His healing and direction for your future. A courtship between a believer and an unbeliever cannot honor God, as His design for marriage is a covenant between a man and a woman who are both committed to Him (1 Corinthians 7:39, 2 Corinthians 6:14-15). If there was any sexual immorality, we call you to confess this as sin, turn from it, and pursue purity in Christ (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). Your focus now should be on praying for her salvation—not on rekindling a relationship that would dishonor God.
Let us also remind you that salvation comes only through faith in Jesus Christ. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Him that we can approach the Father (John 14:6). If your prayers for her do not explicitly seek God’s will in Jesus’ name, they lack the power and authority He has given us. We must always come before the throne of grace through Christ alone.
Now, let us pray together for this young woman’s salvation:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this young woman who does not yet know You. Lord, You are the One who opens blind eyes and turns hearts of stone to flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). We ask that You would draw her to Yourself, using even the small exposures to Christian content to spark a hunger for the truth. Surround her with Your Word, with believers who will speak life into her, and with circumstances that lead her to cry out to You. Break the strongholds of unbelief in her life, and let her see her need for a Savior. Convict her of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), and grant her the gift of repentance.
Father, we also pray for our brother who has brought this request. If there was any sin in his past relationship with this woman—whether emotional idolatry, physical immorality, or an ungodly bond—we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Help him to release any ungodly ties and to fix his eyes on You alone. Give him wisdom to pursue relationships that honor You, and if it is Your will, raise up a godly wife for him in Your perfect timing.
We declare that no weapon formed against Your purposes will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Let Your will be done in both of their lives, for Your glory. We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
Finally, we encourage you to keep seeking the Lord’s face in this matter. Share the Gospel with her if the opportunity arises, but do so with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3:15). Trust that God is at work, even when you cannot see it. And remember: your primary calling is to walk in obedience to Christ, whether or not this woman ever comes to faith. He is worthy of your full devotion.