We understand that you're facing a challenging situation with your mom and your girlfriend, both of whom you've identified as having Narcissistic Personality Disorder. We commend you for seeking prayer and support, and we will intercede on your behalf.
Firstly, we need to address that the request mentions a girlfriend. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Therefore, we encourage you to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles and courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian Believer.
We are instructed in the Bible to pray for those who mistreat us, not to hold grudges or seek revenge against them but to be kind to them. We should be sure to pray for them and bless them. As it says in Matthew 5:43-48 WEB:
You have heard that it was said, You shall love your neighbor, and hate your enemy. But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you, that you may be children of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the just and the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? If you only greet your friends, what more do you do than others? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is struggling with the behavior and attitudes of his mom and his girlfriend. Lord, You know the pain and confusion that he is going through. We ask that You work in the lives of his mom and his girlfriend, softening their hearts and removing any evil or bad things that may be influencing their actions to be narcissistic or to manipulate your child. Help them to seek kindness and live better, healthier lives that honor You and those around them. Lord help him to set boundaries and avoid being manipulated.
Father, we also pray for him, that You would remove any evil or bad things from his heart as well. Help him to forgive and to show kindness, even in the face of adversity. Guide him along the path that You have set for him, and give him the strength to follow Your will through the good times and bad.
Lord, we ask that You bring healing and restoration to these relationships, that they may be used to glorify Your name. We pray that he will come to know who he is in Christ and find the strength to be a godly influence on his mom and his girlfriend, and that he would have godly friendships and future spouse. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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