We come before you with hearts burdened for this soul who is seeking answers in the midst of deep confusion and pain. First, we must address something foundational: there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved except the name of Jesus Christ. *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only through faith in Jesus—the Son of God, who died for our sins and rose again—that we can have true peace, direction, and eternal life. Without this, no amount of prayer, dreams, or human effort can bring the wholeness and redemption the heart longs for. If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Repent of your sins, turn away from anything that contradicts His Word, and place your trust in Him alone.
Now, let us speak truth into this situation with love and clarity. What you are describing is a deep emotional and spiritual entanglement with someone outside the will of God. The Bible is clear that believers are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). While you mention attending church and praying, you also identify as Muslim, and the man you love is Catholic. These are not merely different denominations but fundamentally different faiths—one that denies the deity of Christ and the other that, while claiming Christianity, often mixes biblical truth with human tradition. *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership do righteousness and lawlessness have? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A relationship built on such a foundation cannot honor God, no matter how strong the emotions or supernatural experiences may seem.
The dreams, visions, and feelings you describe are not necessarily from God. The enemy can masquerade as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14), and our hearts can deceive us (Jeremiah 17:9). What you are experiencing may feel like divine revelation, but if it leads you away from the clear truth of Scripture—such as pursuing a relationship that contradicts God’s design—it is not from Him. God does not contradict His Word. He does not call His children into relationships that dishonor Him, regardless of how deeply we may feel connected to another person. *"Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are from God; because many false prophets have gone out into the world."* (1 John 4:1, WEB).
You mention that you have been praying for this man, and while prayer is good, we must ask: what are you praying *for*? If your prayers are centered on restoring a relationship that is outside God’s will, then those prayers are misaligned with His heart. Instead, we should pray for this man’s salvation—for him to come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ apart from religious tradition. We should pray for *your* heart to be fully surrendered to Christ, for your affections to be set on Him above all else, and for the Lord to break any ungodly soul ties between you. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."* (Psalm 37:4, WEB). When our delight is fully in the Lord, He reshapes our desires to align with His perfect will.
The pain you feel is real, and we do not minimize it. Separation and unrequited love are deeply painful. But we must recognize that sometimes God allows pain to redirect us to His purposes. He may be using this season to draw you closer to Himself, to refine your faith, and to prepare you for a future that honors Him. Clinging to this man—especially through letters, dreams, or any form of emotional dependency—will only prolong the agony and keep you from the healing and freedom Jesus offers. *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest."* (Matthew 11:28, WEB). True rest is found in surrendering this situation to Christ, not in trying to force an outcome that may not be His will.
We also must address the supernatural experiences you describe. If these dreams or "revelations" are leading you into emotional bondage, obsession, or a sense of false hope, they are not from the Holy Spirit. The Spirit of God brings peace, conviction of sin, and alignment with Scripture—not confusion, despair, or fixation on a person who is not walking with the Lord. *"For God is not a God of confusion, but of peace."* (1 Corinthians 14:33, WEB). We encourage you to renounce any ungodly spiritual influences in your life. Ask the Lord to cleanse your mind and heart from any deception, and fill you with His truth. *"Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue and if there is any praise, think about these things."* (Philippians 4:8, WEB).
As for the man you love, we will pray for his salvation—not for his return to you, but for his heart to be turned wholly to Christ. If God intends for you two to be together, it will only be possible if *both* of you are fully submitted to Jesus, walking in obedience to His Word, and seeking His kingdom above all else. But even then, the Bible is clear that marriage is a covenant between a man and a woman who share the same faith in Christ. *"Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). Until that alignment exists, any relationship between you would be built on shifting sand.
Lastly, we urge you to stop sending letters to this man. Continually reaching out to him will only keep your heart tied to him and prevent you from moving forward in the freedom Christ offers. Instead, direct your energy toward seeking the Lord, serving others, and allowing God to heal your heart. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
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**Let us pray together:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious soul who is caught in a storm of emotion, confusion, and longing. Lord, we ask that You would open her eyes to see the truth of Your Word and the danger of pursuing a relationship that is not founded on You. Father, if she has not yet surrendered her life fully to Jesus Christ, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for her. May she repent of her sins, turn away from anything that contradicts Your truth, and place her faith entirely in Your Son.
Lord, we ask that You would break every ungodly soul tie between her and this man. Sever any emotional or spiritual bonds that are not of You. Fill her with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Father, if there are any deceptive spirits at work in her life—whether through dreams, visions, or false assurances—we command them to flee in the name of Jesus. Holy Spirit, flood her with Your truth and convict her of anything that does not align with Your Word.
We pray for the man she loves, that You would draw him to Yourself in a powerful way. Save him, Lord, and bring him into a genuine, biblical relationship with You. If it is Your will for them to be together, make it abundantly clear—but only if it honors You and aligns with Your Word. Until then, we ask that You would give her the strength to let go, to trust You, and to walk in obedience, even when it hurts.
Father, heal her heart. Replace her pain with Your joy, her confusion with Your clarity, and her despair with Your hope. Surround her with godly community who can speak Your truth into her life and walk alongside her in this season. Give her the grace to stop reaching out to this man and to surrender this situation entirely to You.
We declare that You are good, that Your plans for her are for welfare and not for evil, to give her a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). May she find her satisfaction in You alone, and may her life bring glory to Your name. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
