We hear your deep pain, anger, and disillusionment, and we come before the Lord with heavy hearts on your behalf. The wounds you’ve described—betrayal, injustice, and the stumbling blocks placed in your path—are not insignificant, and we grieve with you over the ways the body of Christ has failed you. Yet even in this, we must turn to the truth of God’s Word, for it is the only firm foundation that cannot be shaken. The enemy seeks to use these offenses to pull you away from the very One who can heal and restore you, but we stand in the gap to declare that Jesus Christ is still Lord, His Word is still true, and His justice will prevail.
First, we must address the deep hurt caused by those who claimed to represent Christ but acted in ways that were anything but holy. Scripture is clear: *"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves"* (Matthew 7:15). The actions of the thieves, the deceitful pastor, and those who twisted Scripture to manipulate you are an abomination before God. Their behavior does not reflect the heart of Christ, and we boldly rebuke the spirit of deception and hypocrisy that has infiltrated the church. We pray that the Lord would expose every hidden work of darkness and bring these individuals to repentance, for their own sake and for the sake of His name.
You mentioned that you found the Bible "useless" and stopped attending church because God did not answer your prayer. We must gently but firmly remind you that God’s ways are not our ways, and His timing is not ours. *"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, and your ways are not my ways," says Yahweh. "For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts"* (Isaiah 55:8-9). The fact that God did not prevent these injustices does not mean He was absent or indifferent. In fact, He may have allowed these trials to refine your faith, as gold is refined in fire (1 Peter 1:7). But we must also ask: Did you pray *in Jesus’ name*? For Jesus Himself said, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full"* (John 16:23-24). Without the authority of Jesus’ name, our prayers lack the power to reach the throne of grace. If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so now, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).
Your anger toward the political party and those who support them is understandable, but we must caution you against praying for their "downfall" in a spirit of vengeance. Scripture commands us to pray for our leaders, even when we disagree with them: *"I exhort therefore, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercessions, and givings of thanks be made for all men: for kings and all who are in high places, that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and reverence"* (1 Timothy 2:1-2). Instead of praying for their destruction, we should pray for their repentance and for God’s wisdom to guide them. The real battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12), and our weapons are not of this world (2 Corinthians 10:4).
Regarding the issue of marriage, we must address the lies that have been spoken over you. Marriage is not a crime—it is a sacred covenant established by God Himself. *"Yahweh God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make him a helper comparable to him'" (Genesis 2:18). The enemy seeks to distort God’s design for marriage because it reflects Christ’s relationship with the church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you desire marriage, do not let the fearmongering of others deter you. Seek a godly spouse who shares your faith and values, and trust that God’s timing is perfect. But we must also warn against the spirit of bitterness that may be taking root in your heart. *"Pursue peace with all men, and the sanctification without which no one will see the Lord, looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it"* (Hebrews 12:14-15). Bitterness will only poison your soul and hinder your relationship with God.
We also must address the issue of illegal activities. No pastor or spiritual leader has the authority to ask you to participate in sin under the guise of "submitting to God." *"Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things, the wrath of God comes on the children of disobedience"* (Ephesians 5:6). True submission to God means obeying His Word, not the twisted commands of men. If you were fired for refusing to sin, then you were blessed, for *"blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven"* (Matthew 5:10). The Lord sees your integrity, and He will reward you in due time.
Now, we come before the Lord in prayer for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother who has been deeply wounded by the actions of those who claimed to represent You. Lord, we ask that You would heal his heart and restore his faith in You. We rebuke the spirit of offense and bitterness that seeks to take root in his life, and we declare that no weapon formed against him shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Father, we pray for justice in the situations where he has been wronged—where thieves stole, where pastors deceived, and where employers sinned against him. Let Your righteous judgment prevail, and let Your name be glorified in the midst of these trials.
Lord, we ask that You would rekindle his love for Your Word. Remind him that Your promises are true, and that even when we don’t see the answers we desire, You are still working all things together for good (Romans 8:28). Soften his heart to receive Your truth, and lead him back to a community of believers who will love and support him as You intended. Father, we pray for those who have caused him pain—that You would convict their hearts and lead them to repentance. For those who have twisted Your Word, expose their deception and bring them to a place of humility before You.
We pray for the political leaders and those who support them. Father, we ask that You would grant them wisdom and turn their hearts toward righteousness. Let Your light shine in the darkness of their policies, and use Your people to be salt and light in this nation (Matthew 5:13-16). We declare that Your kingdom will come, and Your will shall be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Lord, we ask that You would restore his hope in marriage, if that is Your will for his life. Remove any fear or bitterness that has taken hold, and prepare his heart for the godly spouse You have for him. Let him not be swayed by the lies of the enemy but stand firm in Your truth. And if singleness is Your plan for him, let him find contentment and purpose in serving You wholeheartedly.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would draw him back to Yourself. Let him know that You are near to the brokenhearted and save those who have a contrite spirit (Psalm 34:18). Remind him that Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life, and that no one comes to the Father except through Him (John 14:6). May he surrender his life fully to You, trusting that You are faithful even when others are not.
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can be saved and the only name by which we have access to You. Amen.
