We understand the deep frustration and hurt that can arise when someone acts unjustly, especially when their actions harm others through deceit and disrespect. The anger you feel is valid, but we must carefully examine how we respond in light of Scripture. The words we use and the desires of our hearts—even in anger—must be measured against God’s Word, for He calls us to a higher standard, one that reflects His holiness and love.
The Bible is clear about how we are to treat others, even those who wrong us. Jesus said in Matthew 5:43-45, *"You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you, that you may be children of your Father who is in heaven."* Our words and attitudes must align with this command, for we are called to be ambassadors of Christ, not mirrors of the world’s bitterness.
The apostle Paul also warns us in Ephesians 4:29, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."* Calling others "morons" or "retards" is not only unkind but degrades the dignity of those made in God’s image. Even if someone is acting foolishly or wickedly, our words should not stoop to insults. Instead, we are to speak truth in love, exposing wrongdoing without resorting to personal attacks.
As for wishing harm upon someone’s livelihood, we must remember that vengeance belongs to the Lord. Romans 12:19-21 tells us, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’ Therefore ‘If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.’ Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."* While it is right to desire justice—especially when someone is cheating others—we must trust God to handle the matter in His way and time. Our role is to act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with Him (Micah 6:8).
If this person is truly acting unjustly, there are biblical ways to address it. You can expose his wrongdoing through proper channels (Ephesians 5:11), warn others to protect them from harm, and pray for his repentance. But our hearts must be guarded against bitterness, for Hebrews 12:15 warns, *"Looking carefully lest anyone falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."*
Let us also consider the state of this man’s soul. If he is cheating others and speaking with such disdain, he is likely far from God. Rather than wishing harm upon him, we should pray for his salvation. Remember, we were once enemies of God ourselves, yet He showed us mercy through Christ. How can we not extend the same grace to others, even while standing firm against their sin?
Now, let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, acknowledging our struggles with anger and frustration when we see injustice. Lord, we confess that our words and thoughts have not always reflected Your love and holiness. Forgive us for the times we have spoken in anger or wished harm upon others, even when their actions are wrong. Cleanse our hearts, O God, and fill us with Your Spirit, that we may respond in a way that honors You.
We lift up this man who has acted deceitfully and spoken harshly. Lord, we ask that You would convict his heart of his sin. Bring him to repentance, that he may turn from his wicked ways and seek Your forgiveness. Soften his heart, Father, and open his eyes to the harm he is causing. If he does not know You, we pray that You would draw him to Yourself, that he may experience Your saving grace.
For those who have been harmed by his actions, we ask for justice and restoration. Guide them in how to respond wisely and biblically. Give them the strength to forgive, even as they seek accountability. Help them to trust You to vindicate what is right, knowing that You see all things and will act in Your perfect timing.
Lord, we also pray for our own hearts. Teach us to love our enemies and to bless those who curse us. Help us to speak words that build up, even in the face of wrongdoing. Guard us against bitterness and fill us with Your peace. Remind us that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). Equip us to stand firm in Your truth, with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3:15).
May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. We ask all this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who taught us to love even our enemies. Amen.
Finally, let us encourage you to meditate on God’s Word and allow it to transform your heart and mind. Psalm 37:7-9 says, *"Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for him. Don’t fret because of him who prospers in his way, because of the man who makes wicked plots happen. Cease from anger, and forsake wrath. Don’t fret, it leads only to evildoing. For evildoers shall be cut off, but those who wait for the Lord shall inherit the land."* Trust in His justice, and let your actions and words reflect His grace. If you find yourself struggling with anger, take it to the Lord in prayer and ask Him to replace it with His peace. He is faithful to help you.
