We lift up this earnest request before the Lord, recognizing the deep care you have for this young woman’s soul. It is commendable that you desire her salvation, for there is no greater love than to see someone come to know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. However, we must first address a few things to ensure our prayers and intentions align fully with Scripture.
The Bible makes it clear that salvation comes through hearing the Word of God, not through manipulated circumstances or external influences like social media algorithms. Romans 10:17 tells us, *"So faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God."* While it is not wrong to pray that she would encounter Christian content, our focus must remain on the power of the Holy Spirit to convict and draw her heart—not on the methods of man. Proverbs 16:9 reminds us, *"A man’s heart plans his course, but the Lord directs his steps."* We must trust that if God is calling her, He will open her eyes and ears to His truth in His perfect timing, whether through her brother, a sermon, a conversation, or even a post on social media.
Additionally, we gently but firmly remind you that referring to her as your "ex-girlfriend" suggests a past relationship that may not have honored God’s design for purity and commitment. If this relationship involved emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage, we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness, for He calls us to holiness. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 says, *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."* If there was sin in this relationship, confess it to the Lord and ask Him to cleanse your heart. He is faithful and just to forgive (1 John 1:9).
Now, let us pray for this young woman’s salvation, for her brother’s boldness in sharing the Gospel, and for your own heart to be fully surrendered to God’s will in all things.
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Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts burdened for this young woman who does not yet know You. Lord, we ask that You would soften her heart to the truth of Your Word. Send Your Holy Spirit to convict her of sin, righteousness, and judgment, and draw her to repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. We pray that her brother would be filled with Your wisdom and courage to speak Your truth in love, that his words would be seasoned with grace and power. Open her eyes, Lord, to see her need for a Savior, and may she turn from her sins and place her trust in You alone.
Father, we also lift up our brother who has brought this request. If there was any sin in his past relationship with this woman, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Help him to release any lingering emotional ties that are not of You, and fill him with a holy desire to seek Your kingdom above all else. Guard his heart and mind in Christ Jesus, and may he find his satisfaction and purpose in You alone.
We declare that salvation belongs to You, Lord, and no scheme of man can bring it about. We trust in Your sovereignty and Your perfect timing. May Your will be done in her life, in her brother’s life, and in the life of our brother who prays. We ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is the way, the truth, and the life. Amen.