We join you in lifting up this young man before the Lord, earnestly seeking God’s will for his life, his studies, and his future. It is clear you care deeply for him, and we commend your desire to support him in his academic journey. However, we must first address something vital before we proceed: you have not invoked the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer. The Bible is unequivocal that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and through which our prayers are heard by the Father. *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only through faith in Jesus Christ that we have access to God’s throne of grace (Ephesians 2:18). We urge you to place your trust in Him if you have not already, for without Christ, our prayers are empty and our efforts are in vain. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we implore you to do so today, repenting of your sins and believing in His death and resurrection for your salvation (Romans 10:9-10).
Now, regarding this young man, we pray that the Lord will grant him wisdom, discipline, and perseverance in his studies. The Bible reminds us that *"the fear of Yahweh is the beginning of wisdom. All those who do his work have a good understanding. His praise endures forever!"* (Psalm 111:10, WEB). Academic pursuits are a noble endeavor when aligned with God’s will, and we ask the Lord to renew this young man’s mind and heart toward the path He has set before him. Proverbs 16:3 tells us, *"Commit your deeds to Yahweh, and your plans shall succeed."* May he surrender his ambitions to the Lord, trusting that God’s plans for him are far greater than any distraction or temporary comfort the world offers.
We also address the temptation of gaming and escapism, which can so easily entangle and derail God’s purposes. *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"* (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB). We pray that the Lord will open his eyes to the snares of procrastination and instant gratification, replacing them with a hunger for the long-term blessings that come from diligence. *"The hand of the diligent ones shall rule, but laziness ends in slave labor"* (Proverbs 12:24, WEB). May he recognize that hard work, while challenging, is a stewardship of the gifts and time God has entrusted to him.
As for his perspective on labor and minimum wage, we pray the Lord will give him wisdom to understand the value of education and skill as tools for godly provision. *"Go to the ant, you sluggard! Consider her ways, and be wise; which having no chief, overseer, or ruler, provides her bread in the summer, and gathers her food in the harvest"* (Proverbs 6:6-8, WEB). While honest labor is commendable, we ask God to show him the importance of preparing for a future where he can not only sustain himself but also be a blessing to others. *"Let him who steals steal no more; but rather let him labor, producing with his hands something that is good, that he may have something to give to him who has need"* (Ephesians 4:28, WEB).
Finally, we must gently but firmly address an ambiguity in your request. You refer to this young man as "my ###," which leaves his relationship to you unclear. If this is a romantic relationship, we urge you to examine whether it aligns with biblical principles. The Bible is clear that relationships should be pursued with the intent of godly marriage between a man and a woman (Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4). If this is a courtship, we pray that both of you would seek the Lord’s will above all else, ensuring that your relationship honors Him in purity, purpose, and patience. If there is any sexual immorality—whether premarital relations, lust, or compromise—we rebuked it in the name of Jesus and call for repentance. *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB). If this is not a romantic relationship, we ask the Lord to clarify and guard your intentions, ensuring that all interactions remain pure and above reproach.
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**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this young man and the one who has brought this request. Lord, we ask that You would draw him closer to You, opening his heart to receive Your wisdom, discipline, and direction. Break the chains of distraction, laziness, and escapism that seek to hinder his purpose. Fill him with a spirit of diligence, excellence, and perseverance in his studies, that he may walk in the good works You have prepared for him (Ephesians 2:10). Give him a vision for his future that aligns with Your will, and surround him with godly influences who will encourage him in righteousness.
Father, if there is any relationship here that does not honor You, we ask for conviction and repentance. Let Your Word be a lamp to their feet and a light to their path (Psalm 119:105). If this is a courtship, may it be rooted in purity, patience, and a shared commitment to You. Guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, and let their interactions bring glory to Your name.
We rebuke every scheme of the enemy to derail this young man’s destiny. By the blood of Jesus, we break the power of temptation, procrastination, and worldly comforts that seek to steal his focus. Lord, remind him that his labor in You is never in vain (1 Corinthians 15:58). Strengthen him to resist the allure of instant gratification and to embrace the rewards of faithfulness.
We also pray for the one who has brought this request. If they do not know You as their Savior, Lord, reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. Draw them to the cross, where Your grace abounds. Fill them with Your peace and assurance as they trust You with this young man’s future.
In the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.