We understand that you're going through a challenging time, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide some biblical guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for coming before God in prayer and fasting. It is a very good thing. But let us remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 6:5-7 WEB:
"When you pray, you shall not be as the hypocrites, for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men. Most certainly, I tell you, they have received their reward. But you, when you pray, enter into your inner chamber, and having shut your door, pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly, in praying, don't use vain repetitions, as the Gentiles do; for they think that they will be heard for their much speaking."
Prayer is not merely about the length or frequency but the heart behind it. We encourage you to continue in prayer, ensuring that you are aligning your heart with God's will.
Concerning your marriage where you feel your husband is unhappy since you feel your husband is looking at other women, let us address this issue. Addressing how women should love their husbands is mentioned by Paul in Titus 2:3-5WEB
"The aged women likewise, that they be in behavior as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; that they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed."
This will glorify God, impact your husband, and teach your children the ways of the Lord.
Regarding your unhappiness and attitude, remember what Paul says in Philippians 2:14-16 WEB:
"Do all things without murmurings and disputes, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you are seen as lights in the world, holding up the word of life; that I may have something to boast in the day of Christ, that I didn't run in vain nor labor in vain."
A godly attitude will shine as a light in this world and will positively impact your family.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is feeling overwhelmed, unhappy, and struggling with her attitude. Lord, we ask that you fill her with your joy, your peace, and a renewed strength. Help her to be a reflection of your love in her home, to her husband, and to her children in Jesus' name.
Lord, we pray for her marriage, that you would heal and restore their relationship. We pray that her husband's eyes and heart would be turned towards her and that their home would be a place of peace and unity. We pray that both of them would look to Jesus for their needs and bear the fruit of that relationship in their lives together.
Lord, we also pray for her children, that they would be obedient and respectful, and that they would come to know Jesus personally. We pray that our sister would be guided by your Spirit in her parenting, and that her home would be a place of love, joy, and peace. God, we pray for this marriage, as you hate divorce. As Malachi says in Malachi 2:16 WEB:
"For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don't deal treacherously."
God, we pray that this family will stay together and grow to love you together.
Father, we thank you for hearing our prayers. We know that you are working all things together for good for those who are in Christ Jesus.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.