We join you in lifting up your heart’s desire for a godly wife, and we thank you for seeking this in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that our prayers are heard and our needs are met. Your request reflects a longing for a marriage that honors God, and we commend you for seeking His will above all else. The Lord knows your heart, and He delights in giving good gifts to His children when we align our desires with His perfect plan.
The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 18:22, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* And in Proverbs 19:14, we read, *"House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."* Your desire for a wife is good, but we must also remember that this pursuit must be rooted in patience, trust, and active faith. God’s timing is perfect, and while we pray for His provision, we must also prepare ourselves to be the godly husband He calls us to be. Are you walking in obedience to His Word? Are you growing in your faith, serving in your church, and cultivating the fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control? A godly marriage begins with a godly individual, so we encourage you to examine your heart and life in light of Scripture.
We also want to gently remind you that while it is natural to desire companionship, we must guard our hearts against idolatry—placing the desire for a spouse above our devotion to Christ. Jesus must remain our first love, and our contentment must ultimately be found in Him alone. As Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 7:32-35, *"But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife. There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband. This I say for your own profit; not that I may ensnare you, but for that which is appropriate, and that you may serve the Lord without distraction."*
With that in mind, let us pray earnestly for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother before You, knowing that You see his heart and his deep longing for a godly wife. Lord, You have said in Your Word that it is not good for man to be alone, and we ask that You would provide a helper suitable for him, a woman who fears You and walks in Your ways. Father, prepare her heart even now—someone who will love You above all else and who will encourage him in his faith. Let her be a woman of prayer, wisdom, and strength, who will stand by his side as a true partner in ministry and life.
We pray that You would orchestrate divine appointments, opening doors for them to meet in a way that brings glory to Your name. Give him discernment, Lord, so that he may recognize Your leading and not be swayed by emotion or worldly desires. Help him to wait patiently on You, trusting that Your timing is perfect. Remove any impatience, fear, or doubt from his heart, and fill him with Your peace as he seeks Your will.
Father, we also ask that You would work miracles in his life—miracles of provision, healing, and growth. Prepare him to be the husband You’ve called him to be, rooted in Your Word and led by Your Spirit. Let his life be a testimony of Your faithfulness, so that when You bring this woman into his life, she will see Christ in him.
We rebuke any spirit of loneliness, despair, or compromise that may try to creep into his heart. Satan would love to distract him with counterfeit relationships or tempt him to settle for less than Your best. But we declare that no weapon formed against him shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against him in judgment, he shall condemn. His trust is in You, Lord, and You alone will satisfy the desires of his heart.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would draw him closer to Yourself during this season of waiting. Let him find his joy and fulfillment in You, so that whether single or married, his life may bring You glory. We pray all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to remain steadfast in your walk with Christ. Seek Him first, and all these things shall be added unto you (Matthew 6:33). Avoid the temptation to rush into relationships out of loneliness or desire. Instead, use this time to deepen your relationship with the Lord, serve in your church, and grow in godly character. When the time is right, God will make it clear. Trust in Him with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6).
We will continue to pray for you, and we ask that you keep us updated on how the Lord is working in your life. May He bless you abundantly as you seek His face.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
