We join you in lifting this request before the Lord, knowing that His heart is for His children to walk in godly relationships that bring Him glory. It is beautiful that you seek a wife in the Lord’s will, for Scripture tells us, *"It isn’t good for man to be alone"* (Genesis 2:18, WEB). We pray that God would prepare you and the woman He has for you, that you both would be rooted in Christ, walking in purity and faith.
Yet we must also remind you that this desire must be surrendered fully to God’s timing and purpose. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4, WEB). This means seeking Him first—not just a spouse—trusting that as you abide in Him, He will align your heart with His perfect plan. Have you examined whether you are actively growing in your faith, serving in your church, and cultivating the character of a godly husband? *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her"* (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). A marriage that honors God begins with a man who reflects Christ’s sacrificial love.
We also urge you to guard your heart against idolatry—placing the desire for marriage above your devotion to Christ. *"Seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:33, WEB). If this longing has become a source of discontentment or distraction from your walk with the Lord, repent and realign your focus. God’s ways are higher, and His timing is perfect.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother before You, asking that You prepare him and the woman You have chosen for him—if it is Your will. Grant him patience to wait on You, wisdom to recognize Your leading, and faith to trust Your sovereignty. Remove any impatience, fear, or worldly expectations that may hinder Your perfect plan. If there are areas in his life that need refinement—whether in purity, leadership, or devotion to You—convict him by Your Spirit and empower him to walk in obedience.
Lord, we ask for divine connections, for opportunities to meet a godly woman who loves You above all else. Let their paths cross in Your timing, and let their hearts be knit together in Christ. Protect them both from distractions, ungodly influences, or relationships that do not honor You. If this brother has struggled with loneliness or temptation, we pray You would fill him with Your peace and remind him that You are enough.
We rebuke any spirit of fear, doubt, or impatience in the name of Jesus. Let Your will be done, not ours. May this brother’s life be a testimony of Your faithfulness, whether in singleness or marriage. And if marriage is Your plan, let it be a covenant that reflects Your love for the Church—pure, selfless, and enduring.
We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of our trust. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer, immersed in Scripture, and active in a biblical community. God sees your heart, and He will not withhold any good thing from those who walk uprightly (Psalm 84:11). Trust Him, even in the waiting. *"The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him"* (Lamentations 3:25, WEB). Stay faithful—His promises are true.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
