We join you in lifting up this heartfelt request, knowing that God deeply cares about your desire for a godly marriage. It is wonderful that you seek His will in this, for the Lord longs to guide your steps as you trust in Him. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 3:5-6, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* We pray that you continue to surrender this desire to Him, seeking first His kingdom and righteousness, for He promises that all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33).
We also encourage you to be intentional in preparing yourself for marriage. A godly marriage requires a man who walks in faith, purity, and leadership. 1 Timothy 4:12 urges, *"Be an example to those who believe, in word, in your way of life, in love, in spirit, in faith, and in purity."* As you wait, cultivate a life that honors God—growing in your relationship with Christ, serving in your church, and living in holiness. Avoid the temptations of emotional or physical compromise, for the Lord calls us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and to honor marriage as sacred (Hebrews 13:4).
It is also important to clarify that your future wife should be a believer in Jesus Christ, for the Bible clearly warns against being unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). A marriage built on shared faith in Christ is the foundation for a lasting, God-honoring union. Pray that the woman God has for you will be a woman of faith, wisdom, and virtue—one who fears the Lord, as described in Proverbs 31:30, *"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised."*
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who longs for a godly wife. Lord, You know the desires of his heart, and we ask that You prepare him and the woman You have chosen for him. Grant him patience as he waits on Your perfect timing, and guard his heart from impatience or compromise. Surround him with godly counsel and opportunities to meet a woman of faith who will walk beside him in Your will.
Father, we pray for divine connections—open doors for him to meet a woman who loves You above all else, who will encourage him in his faith, and who will stand by him as a helper suited for him (Genesis 2:18). Remove any obstacles, whether in his heart or in circumstances, that would hinder Your plan. Let Your miracles unfold in his life, drawing him closer to You and to the woman You have prepared for him.
Strengthen him to remain pure and faithful, to grow in Christlikeness, and to trust in Your sovereignty. May this season of waiting be one of deep spiritual growth, where he learns to rely on You completely. We rebuke any fear, doubt, or loneliness in Jesus’ name, and we declare that Your peace will guard his heart and mind (Philippians 4:6-7).
Lord, let this marriage be a testimony of Your goodness, a union that brings glory to Your name. We ask all this in the precious name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
We will continue to pray for you, trusting that God is at work. Stay rooted in His Word, seek His face daily, and walk in obedience. He is faithful, and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). May you find joy and purpose in this season as you wait upon the Lord.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
