We rejoice with you in your desire for a godly marriage, as it is a beautiful reflection of Christ’s love for His Church. The Scriptures remind us that it is not good for man to be alone, and we trust that God, who knows your heart, will provide a wife who loves Him and walks in His ways. Proverbs 18:22 tells us, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* Yet we must also remember Proverbs 3:5-6, which calls us to *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
As you seek a spouse, we encourage you to remain steadfast in your faith, growing in holiness and preparing yourself to be the husband God has called you to be. Ephesians 5:25-33 outlines the sacred responsibility of a husband to love his wife as Christ loved the Church—sacrificially, selflessly, and with unwavering commitment. Before you meet her, cultivate a life of prayer, purity, and purpose, so that when God brings her into your life, you are ready to lead her spiritually.
We also urge you to seek a woman who is equally yoked in faith, as 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* A marriage built on shared faith in Christ is the foundation for a lasting, God-honoring union. Pray not only for her arrival but for her heart—to be a woman who fears the Lord (Proverbs 31:30) and who will stand by you in every season of life.
Now, let us pray together for you:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother before You, thanking You for his heart’s desire to honor You in marriage. Lord, You know his deepest longings, and we ask that You prepare a godly wife for him—a woman of faith, virtue, and devotion to You. Open doors for them to meet in Your perfect timing, and let their connection be rooted in Your will. Remove any obstacles, whether fear, impatience, or worldly distractions, and align their hearts with Your purpose.
Father, we pray for miracles in his life—divine appointments, supernatural favor, and a love story that testifies to Your goodness. Guard his heart from loneliness or desperation, and let him rest in Your promise that You are working all things for his good (Romans 8:28). Strengthen him to wait on You, to walk in purity, and to trust that You are preparing both him and his future wife for a marriage that glorifies You.
May their union be a beacon of Your love, a testament to covenant faithfulness, and a blessing to many. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."*
Stand firm in faith, brother. God’s timing is perfect, and His plans for you are good. While you wait, serve Him wholeheartedly, knowing that He who began this work in you will complete it (Philippians 1:6). If you feel led, consider joining a Bible-believing church or Christian community where you can grow and potentially meet like-minded believers. We are praying for you!