We join you in lifting this request before our Heavenly Father, rejoicing that you have come before Him in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Christ that we have access to the throne of grace. Your desire for a godly marriage is a beautiful and righteous longing, one that reflects God’s design for companionship and covenant love. We praise God for placing this on your heart, and we stand with you in prayer, trusting that He who began this good work in you will bring it to completion.
The Scriptures remind us that *"It isn’t good for man to be alone"* (Genesis 2:18, WEB), and we see in Proverbs 18:22 that *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* Yet, we must also remember that marriage is a sacred covenant, not merely a relationship of convenience or emotional fulfillment. It is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, rooted in Christ, for the glory of God. As you seek a wife, we encourage you to prioritize a woman who is first and foremost a believer in Jesus Christ, for *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A marriage built on shared faith in Christ is the foundation for a home that honors God.
We also urge you to examine your own heart in this season. Are you actively cultivating the qualities of a godly husband? The Word tells us that husbands are to *"love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it"* (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). This love is sacrificial, patient, and selfless. It is a love that reflects Christ’s love for His bride, the Church. As you pray for a wife, ask God to shape you into the man He has called you to be—one who leads with humility, serves with love, and walks in integrity. *"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law"* (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB). Let these fruits be evident in your life as you prepare for marriage.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the precious name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who longs for a godly wife. Lord, You know the deepest desires of his heart, and we thank You that You are a God who hears and answers prayer. Father, we ask that You prepare him and the woman You have chosen for him, that both may be sanctified and made ready for this sacred covenant of marriage. Give him patience, Lord, as he waits on Your perfect timing, and guard his heart from impatience, loneliness, or compromise.
We pray that You would orchestrate divine appointments, Lord—opportunities for him to meet a woman of faith who fears You and walks in Your ways. Let her be a woman of virtue, as described in Proverbs 31, one who *"opens her mouth with wisdom; kindly instruction is on her tongue"* (Proverbs 31:26, WEB). May she be a woman who seeks You above all else, who will stand by his side in faith, and who will encourage him to grow closer to You.
Father, we ask for miracles in his life—open doors that no man can shut, and align his steps with Yours. Remove any obstacles, whether spiritual, emotional, or practical, that would hinder Your perfect plan. Let there be a clear and unmistakable leading from Your Spirit, so that when he meets her, both will know it is of You. Bind them together in a love that reflects Christ and the Church, a love that is pure, selfless, and enduring.
We rebuke any spirit of fear, doubt, or discouragement that may try to creep into his heart. Satan, we command you to flee in the name of Jesus! Our brother is covered by the blood of Christ, and no weapon formed against him shall prosper. Lord, surround him with Your peace and fill him with Your joy as he trusts in You.
Finally, Father, we pray that You would prepare him to be a godly husband—a man who loves as Christ loves, who leads with wisdom, and who serves with humility. May he be a man of prayer, a man of Your Word, and a man after Your own heart. Let this season of waiting be a time of deep spiritual growth, where You refine him and draw him closer to You.
We ask all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and in your walk with the Lord. Trust in His timing, for *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this"* (Psalm 37:4-5, WEB). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and He will guide your steps. We are standing with you in faith, believing that God is at work even now. Be encouraged, for *"The effective, earnest prayer of a righteous man is powerfully effective"* (James 5:16, WEB). May the Lord bless you and keep you as you wait upon Him.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
