We join you in lifting this request before the Lord, for we know that it is good and right to seek a godly spouse, as marriage is a sacred covenant established by God Himself. The desire for a wife who loves the Lord and walks in His ways is a noble one, and we pray that God will honor your heart’s cry as you seek His will above all else. The Scriptures remind us in Proverbs 18:22, *"Whosoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* We also recall Proverbs 19:14, which says, *"House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."* Your request aligns with God’s design, and we trust He will guide you in His perfect timing.
Yet we must also encourage you to examine your own heart and life in this season of waiting. Are you actively preparing yourself to be the husband God calls you to be? The Apostle Paul urges in Ephesians 5:25-28, *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her; that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without defect. Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself."* A godly marriage requires sacrifice, leadership, and a heart surrendered to Christ. We pray that as you wait, you will grow in faith, purity, and devotion to the Lord, for a man who fears God is a man who will honor his wife.
We also caution you to guard your heart against idolatry in this desire. While marriage is a beautiful gift from God, it must never become an ultimate pursuit that replaces your devotion to Christ. Jesus reminds us in Matthew 6:33, *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."* Your primary focus must remain on serving the Lord with all your heart, trusting that He will provide what is best for you in His time. If there is any anxiety or impatience in your heart, we pray you would release it to the Lord, for Philippians 4:6-7 tells us, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."*
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who seeks a wife after Your own heart. Lord, You know his deepest longings, and we ask that You would prepare him and the woman You have chosen for him. Grant him patience, faith, and a heart fully surrendered to Your will. Remove any fear, doubt, or worldly desire that does not align with Your perfect plan. Father, we pray that You would bring this woman into his life in Your perfect timing—one who loves You above all else, who will stand by him in faith, and who will encourage him to grow closer to You. Let their meeting be divinely orchestrated, and let their courtship be marked by purity, wisdom, and a shared commitment to Your kingdom.
We rebuke any spirit of loneliness, impatience, or compromise that may seek to distract him from Your best. Surround him with godly counsel and community that will support him in this season. Lord, perform miracles in his life that draw him closer to You and prepare the way for the marriage You have designed. May this union bring glory to Your name and be a testimony of Your faithfulness.
We declare over him the promise of Psalm 37:4-5, *"Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this."* Father, may he delight in You above all else, and may You grant the desires of his heart as he seeks You first.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
