We join you in lifting this request before the Lord, for we know that it is His will for His children to seek godly spouses who will walk with them in faith, love, and obedience to His Word. The desire for marriage is honorable, and we pray that God will guide you into a relationship that glorifies Him, rooted in His truth and purpose. As you seek a wife, we encourage you to remain steadfast in your walk with Christ, for a godly marriage begins with two individuals fully surrendered to Him.
The Scriptures remind us that *"a man who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh"* (Proverbs 18:22, WEB). Yet we are also called to seek first God’s Kingdom and His righteousness, trusting that He will provide all things according to His perfect will (Matthew 6:33). It is essential that the woman you seek is not only a helper suited for you but also a believer who loves the Lord with all her heart, for *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A marriage built on shared faith in Christ is the foundation for a lasting, Christ-centered union.
We also urge you to prepare yourself spiritually, emotionally, and practically for marriage. Pursue holiness, serve in your church, and cultivate the fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). These qualities will not only draw a godly woman to you but will also equip you to lead a marriage that reflects Christ’s love for His Church.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who longs for a wife. Lord, You have said that it is not good for man to be alone, and we ask that You would provide a godly woman for him, one who fears You and walks in Your ways. Open his eyes to see her when she comes, and open her heart to recognize him as the man You have prepared for her. Let their meeting be divinely orchestrated by You, and let their courtship be pure, patient, and full of faith.
Father, we pray that You would remove any obstacles—spiritual, emotional, or practical—that stand in the way of this union. If there are areas in his life that need refinement, convict him by Your Spirit and grant him the strength to walk in obedience. Surround him with godly counsel and mentors who can guide him in this season.
We ask for miracles in his life, Lord—not just in this area, but in every part of his walk with You. Strengthen his faith, deepen his trust in You, and let him see Your hand moving in ways that bring You glory. May this season of waiting be a time of growth, where he draws closer to You and becomes more like Christ.
Finally, Lord, we rebuke any spirit of loneliness, impatience, or compromise that may try to lead him astray. Let him wait on You with expectation, knowing that Your timing is perfect and Your plans for him are good. We declare that You are faithful, and we trust You to answer this prayer in a way that exceeds his hopes.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to remain patient and trust in the Lord’s timing. Do not rush ahead of Him or settle for less than His best. Seek His face daily, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). We will continue to pray for you, believing that God is at work even now. Stay rooted in His Word, and let your life be a testimony of faith as you wait on Him. God bless you!