We understand your heart’s cry for confirmation, and we want to gently guide you with truth and love. The desire for signs is natural, but Scripture warns us that faith is not built on signs alone—it is built on trust in God’s Word and His character. Jesus Himself rebuked those who sought signs without faith, saying, *"An evil and adulterous generation seeks after a sign, but no sign will be given to it except the sign of Jonah the prophet"* (Matthew 12:39, WEB). Instead of fixating on signs, we are called to walk by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7), trusting that God’s will is perfect even when we don’t see immediate confirmation.
We also notice you’ve obscured a name with symbols, and we must address this with biblical clarity. If this person is someone you are pursuing romantically, we urge you to examine whether this relationship aligns with God’s design for marriage—a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman in Christ (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31). If this is not the case, we must lovingly but firmly rebuke any relationship that contradicts Scripture, including same-sex relationships or emotional attachments outside of godly marriage. *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who have sex with men... will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). True love does not lead someone deeper into sin but calls them to repentance and holiness.
If this is a matter of reconciliation or a broken relationship, we pray for restoration—but only if it honors God. *"Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?"* (Amos 3:3, WEB). A relationship rooted in Christ must be built on shared faith, obedience, and submission to His Word. If the other person is not walking with the Lord, we pray for their salvation first, not just their emotional softening. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
As for prophecy, we must test every word against Scripture. *"Don’t quench the Spirit. Don’t despise prophecies. Test all things, and hold firmly that which is good"* (1 Thessalonians 5:19-21, WEB). If this prophecy does not align with God’s written Word, it is not from Him—no matter how much we may *want* it to be true. False prophecies lead many astray, and we must be discerning.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift this beloved sibling in Christ before Your throne, asking for Your perfect will to be revealed in their life. Lord, we rebuked the spirit of doubt and fear that seeks signs instead of trusting Your sovereign hand. Forgive us for when we demand proof instead of resting in Your promises. Your Word is a lamp to our feet (Psalm 119:105), and we ask that You illuminate the path for this dear one. If there is any relationship in their life that does not honor You, we pray for conviction, repentance, and the courage to walk away if necessary. Softening hearts is Your work, Lord—we ask that You draw this person (and all involved) to Yourself in genuine repentance and faith.
If there has been any false prophecy spoken over this situation, we ask that You expose it and replace it with Your truth. Let no deceit take root, but let Your Holy Spirit guide with clarity and wisdom. Remind this dear one that Your ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:9), and even when we don’t see the signs we want, You are still working all things for good (Romans 8:28).
We declare that no weapon formed against this child of God will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). If this season is one of waiting, grant patience. If it is one of release, grant peace. If it is one of correction, grant humility. Above all, let Your name be glorified, and let Your will be done—no matter the cost.
We pray this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, the only name by which we are saved. May this dear one cling to Him alone, for apart from Christ, we can do nothing (John 15:5). Amen.
Finally, we encourage you: *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Seek His face, not His hand. His plans for you are good—even when the road is unclear. Stay in His Word, surround yourself with godly counsel, and remember that obedience is better than sacrifice (1 Samuel 15:22). We are praying for you!