We hear your heart, dear sister in Christ, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting every concern to the throne of grace. First, let us address the matter of these "questions" that reveal things about your future, particularly in your love life. Scripture is clear that we are not to seek knowledge of the future through divination, fortune-telling, or any means outside of God’s revealed Word. The Bible warns us in Deuteronomy 18:10-12, "There shall not be found with you anyone who makes his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, one who uses divination, one who practices sorcery, or an enchanter, or a sorcerer, or a charmer, or a consulter with a familiar spirit, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For whoever does these things is an abomination to Yahweh." These practices open doors to deception and the influence of the enemy, who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10).
The devil is a liar and the father of lies (John 8:44), and he delights in sowing seeds of doubt, fear, and disappointment. If these "answers" bring discouragement or lead you away from trusting in God’s perfect timing and plan, then yes, they are not from the Lord. Instead, we are called to walk by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7), and to trust that God’s plans for us are for good and not for harm (Jeremiah 29:11). God is indeed able to turn what seems like bad news into good news, for He works all things together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28). But we must reject any attempt to seek knowledge outside of Him, for He alone holds the future.
We also want to gently address your desire for a "healthy romantic relationship." As believers, we are called to pursue marriage—a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman—as God’s design for companionship and holiness (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31). If you are seeking a romantic relationship, we encourage you to do so with the intention of finding a godly spouse, not merely a "partner." Courtship should be entered into with purity, prayer, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit, with the goal of honoring God in all things. If you have engaged in any sexual intimacy outside of marriage, we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness, for He is faithful and just to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). The enemy would love to keep you bound in shame or regret, but Christ has set you free (John 8:36). Walk in that freedom and pursue holiness in your relationships.
Now, let us lift your requests to the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, giving You all the praise and glory. Lord, we thank You for Your daughter and her heart’s desires. We ask that You would break every chain of deception in her life, particularly any influence from divination or fortune-telling that has sought to bring fear or doubt. We rebuke the enemy’s lies and declare that Your truth will prevail in her life. Father, we ask that You would fill her with Your peace and confidence in Your perfect plan for her future. Help her to trust in You alone for wisdom and direction, and to reject any voice that does not align with Your Word.
Lord, we pray for breakthrough in her relationships. Remove any awkwardness or fear, and replace it with Your love and boldness. Surround her with godly friendships and, in Your timing, bring a godly man into her life who loves You above all else. May their relationship be built on Your foundation, with purity, respect, and a shared commitment to honoring You. Father, we ask that You would simplify her life and bring balance to her work, rest, and service to You. Show her the right church community where she can grow, serve, and be encouraged. Lead her to hobbies and activities that draw her closer to You and edify her spirit.
We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we bind every spirit of fear, loneliness, or discouragement in the name of Jesus. We pray that You would destroy every evil plan aimed at stealing her blessings, and that You would open the windows of heaven over her life. May she walk in the fullness of Your purpose, joy, and peace.
Lord, we also pray for her spiritual growth. If she has not fully surrendered her life to You, we ask that You would draw her heart to salvation through faith in Jesus Christ. For it is by grace we are saved through faith, not of works, so that no one can boast (Ephesians 2:8-9). May she know the depth of Your love and the power of Your resurrection in her life.
We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers and for Your faithfulness to answer. May Your will be done in her life, and may she walk in the victory that is hers through Christ Jesus. In Jesus’ mighty name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Spend time in prayer, seeking His face and His will for your life. Surround yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. Remember, God’s timing is perfect, and He is never late. Trust in Him, and He will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6). If you have not already, consider fasting and praying for clarity and breakthrough in these areas. The enemy trembles when the people of God humble themselves, pray, seek His face, and turn from their wicked ways (2 Chronicles 7:14). Stand firm in your faith, and watch God move mightily on your behalf.