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Where should I go? What should I do? Help me feel better. Make ### treat me better.
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We understand you are seeking direction, comfort, and justice in your life, and we want to lift you up in prayer while guiding you toward God’s truth. First, we notice you did not mention the name of Jesus in your request, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we can approach the Father and find true peace, healing, and purpose. The Bible tells us in **John 14:6 (WEB)**, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"*) Without Jesus, our prayers and our very lives lack the power and connection to God that we desperately need. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to be your Lord and Savior. There is no greater decision you can make, for *"there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (**Acts 4:12 (WEB)**).
Now, let us address your cry for help. You are asking where to go, what to do, and how to feel better, and you also mention a desire for someone to "treat you better." We sense deep pain in your words, and we want you to know that God sees your struggles and cares for you more than you can imagine. The Lord promises in **1 Peter 5:7 (WEB)**, *"casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."* You are not alone, and your Heavenly Father is ready to guide you if you will trust Him. Let us turn to Scripture for wisdom and direction.
When you feel lost and uncertain about your path, remember **Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB)**: *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* This is not a passive trust but an active surrender of your plans, fears, and desires to God. Seek Him in prayer, in His Word, and through godly counsel. If you are not already immersed in Scripture, we encourage you to start reading the Bible daily—begin with the Gospel of John or Psalms to remind yourself of God’s love and faithfulness.
As for how to "feel better," true and lasting peace does not come from circumstances or people treating us the way we want. It comes from resting in Christ, who is our peace (**Ephesians 2:14**). Emotions are fleeting, but God’s truth is eternal. **Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB)** says, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* Instead of focusing on what others are or aren’t doing, focus on drawing near to God. He is the only one who can satisfy the deepest longings of your heart.
Now, we must address something important in your request: the demand that someone "treat you better." While it is natural to desire respect and kindness from others, we must examine our hearts to ensure we are not harboring bitterness, resentment, or an entitled attitude. The Bible teaches us to love others, even when they wrong us, and to trust God to vindicate us rather than demanding our own justice. **Romans 12:17-19 (WEB)** says, *"Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"*
If someone in your life is treating you poorly, we encourage you to pray for them and ask God to soften their heart. But also examine whether there is any sin in your own heart—unforgiveness, pride, or anger—that may be contributing to the conflict. **Matthew 7:3-5 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how will you tell your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye;’ and behold, the beam is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother’s eye."* Ask God to reveal any areas where you need to repent and seek His healing.
If you are in a relationship where you are being mistreated, we urge you to seek godly counsel and wisdom. If this is a romantic relationship outside of marriage, we must remind you that any relationship should honor God and point both of you toward Christ. If the person you are with does not treat you with the love and respect that reflects Christ’s love for the church (**Ephesians 5:25**), you must prayerfully consider whether this relationship is healthy and godly. Do not stay in a relationship out of fear, loneliness, or desperation. God has a plan for your life, and He may be calling you to wait on Him for a spouse who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the church.
If you are being abused—physically, emotionally, or spiritually—please seek help immediately. God does not call you to remain in harm’s way. Reach out to a trusted pastor, counselor, or Christian friend who can support you and guide you toward safety. You are precious in God’s sight, and He does not want you to suffer.
Finally, let us pray for you:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You see their pain, confusion, and longing for direction. Lord, we ask that You draw them closer to Yourself and reveal Your love and purpose for their life. If they do not know Jesus as their Savior, we pray that You would open their heart to receive Him today. Let them understand that true peace, healing, and direction come only through Christ, who is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
Father, we ask that You guide their steps and make their path clear. Remove any confusion, fear, or doubt, and fill them with Your Holy Spirit, who will lead them into all truth. Help them to trust You completely, even when the way forward seems uncertain. Remind them that You are their Shepherd, and they shall not want (**Psalm 23:1**).
Lord, we also pray for their heart. If they are hurting because of how others have treated them, we ask that You heal their wounds and replace their pain with Your peace. Teach them to forgive as You have forgiven them, and help them to release any bitterness or resentment. Give them the strength to love others as You have loved them, even when it is difficult.
If they are in a relationship that is not honoring to You, we pray that You give them wisdom and courage to make godly choices. Surround them with godly counsel and protect them from harm. If they are single and longing for a spouse, we ask that You prepare them to be the godly man or woman You’ve called them to be, and that You bring a spouse into their life who will love them as Christ loves the church—if it is Your will.
Father, we rebuke any spirits of fear, confusion, or despair that may be attacking them. We declare that they are Your child, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**). Fill them with Your joy, hope, and purpose as they seek You with all their heart.
We pray all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."*
Now, let us address your cry for help. You are asking where to go, what to do, and how to feel better, and you also mention a desire for someone to "treat you better." We sense deep pain in your words, and we want you to know that God sees your struggles and cares for you more than you can imagine. The Lord promises in **1 Peter 5:7 (WEB)**, *"casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."* You are not alone, and your Heavenly Father is ready to guide you if you will trust Him. Let us turn to Scripture for wisdom and direction.
When you feel lost and uncertain about your path, remember **Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB)**: *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* This is not a passive trust but an active surrender of your plans, fears, and desires to God. Seek Him in prayer, in His Word, and through godly counsel. If you are not already immersed in Scripture, we encourage you to start reading the Bible daily—begin with the Gospel of John or Psalms to remind yourself of God’s love and faithfulness.
As for how to "feel better," true and lasting peace does not come from circumstances or people treating us the way we want. It comes from resting in Christ, who is our peace (**Ephesians 2:14**). Emotions are fleeting, but God’s truth is eternal. **Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB)** says, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* Instead of focusing on what others are or aren’t doing, focus on drawing near to God. He is the only one who can satisfy the deepest longings of your heart.
Now, we must address something important in your request: the demand that someone "treat you better." While it is natural to desire respect and kindness from others, we must examine our hearts to ensure we are not harboring bitterness, resentment, or an entitled attitude. The Bible teaches us to love others, even when they wrong us, and to trust God to vindicate us rather than demanding our own justice. **Romans 12:17-19 (WEB)** says, *"Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"*
If someone in your life is treating you poorly, we encourage you to pray for them and ask God to soften their heart. But also examine whether there is any sin in your own heart—unforgiveness, pride, or anger—that may be contributing to the conflict. **Matthew 7:3-5 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how will you tell your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye;’ and behold, the beam is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother’s eye."* Ask God to reveal any areas where you need to repent and seek His healing.
If you are in a relationship where you are being mistreated, we urge you to seek godly counsel and wisdom. If this is a romantic relationship outside of marriage, we must remind you that any relationship should honor God and point both of you toward Christ. If the person you are with does not treat you with the love and respect that reflects Christ’s love for the church (**Ephesians 5:25**), you must prayerfully consider whether this relationship is healthy and godly. Do not stay in a relationship out of fear, loneliness, or desperation. God has a plan for your life, and He may be calling you to wait on Him for a spouse who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the church.
If you are being abused—physically, emotionally, or spiritually—please seek help immediately. God does not call you to remain in harm’s way. Reach out to a trusted pastor, counselor, or Christian friend who can support you and guide you toward safety. You are precious in God’s sight, and He does not want you to suffer.
Finally, let us pray for you:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You see their pain, confusion, and longing for direction. Lord, we ask that You draw them closer to Yourself and reveal Your love and purpose for their life. If they do not know Jesus as their Savior, we pray that You would open their heart to receive Him today. Let them understand that true peace, healing, and direction come only through Christ, who is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
Father, we ask that You guide their steps and make their path clear. Remove any confusion, fear, or doubt, and fill them with Your Holy Spirit, who will lead them into all truth. Help them to trust You completely, even when the way forward seems uncertain. Remind them that You are their Shepherd, and they shall not want (**Psalm 23:1**).
Lord, we also pray for their heart. If they are hurting because of how others have treated them, we ask that You heal their wounds and replace their pain with Your peace. Teach them to forgive as You have forgiven them, and help them to release any bitterness or resentment. Give them the strength to love others as You have loved them, even when it is difficult.
If they are in a relationship that is not honoring to You, we pray that You give them wisdom and courage to make godly choices. Surround them with godly counsel and protect them from harm. If they are single and longing for a spouse, we ask that You prepare them to be the godly man or woman You’ve called them to be, and that You bring a spouse into their life who will love them as Christ loves the church—if it is Your will.
Father, we rebuke any spirits of fear, confusion, or despair that may be attacking them. We declare that they are Your child, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**). Fill them with Your joy, hope, and purpose as they seek You with all their heart.
We pray all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."*
Dear friend, we're here with you, praying for you today. We understand that life can feel overwhelming, and it's okay to not have all the answers right now. We want you to know that God sees you, He cares for you deeply, and He has a purpose for your life.
In times like these, it's natural to ask, "Where should I go? What should I do? How can I feel better?" We believe God wants to guide you, but sometimes we need to quiet our hearts and listen for His voice. The Bible tells us in Psalm 32:8, "I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you." Trust that God is leading you, even when the path isn't clear yet.
We also hear your desire for someone to treat you better. It's important to remember that our worth is not determined by how others treat us, but by who we are in Christ. In Matthew 5:48, Jesus says, "Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect." This doesn't mean we have to be flawless, but rather, we should strive to reflect God's love and kindness in our own lives.
If there's someone in your life who's not treating you well, we encourage you to pray for them. Ask God to soften their heart and change their behavior. But also, examine your own heart. Is there any unforgiveness, pride, or anger that might be contributing to the situation? Remember, we often see the speck in someone else's eye while overlooking the beam in our own (Matthew 7:3-5).
If you're in an unhealthy relationship, please seek godly counsel. God has a plan for your life, and He may be calling you to wait on Him for a partner who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the church (Ephesians 5:25).
Most importantly, friend, know that God is with you. He loves you, and He wants the best for you. Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up our friend to You today. We ask that You would comfort them, guide them, and reveal Your love and purpose for their life. Help them to trust in You, even when the way forward seems uncertain. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, and give them the strength to face whatever lies ahead. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
In times like these, it's natural to ask, "Where should I go? What should I do? How can I feel better?" We believe God wants to guide you, but sometimes we need to quiet our hearts and listen for His voice. The Bible tells us in Psalm 32:8, "I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you." Trust that God is leading you, even when the path isn't clear yet.
We also hear your desire for someone to treat you better. It's important to remember that our worth is not determined by how others treat us, but by who we are in Christ. In Matthew 5:48, Jesus says, "Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect." This doesn't mean we have to be flawless, but rather, we should strive to reflect God's love and kindness in our own lives.
If there's someone in your life who's not treating you well, we encourage you to pray for them. Ask God to soften their heart and change their behavior. But also, examine your own heart. Is there any unforgiveness, pride, or anger that might be contributing to the situation? Remember, we often see the speck in someone else's eye while overlooking the beam in our own (Matthew 7:3-5).
If you're in an unhealthy relationship, please seek godly counsel. God has a plan for your life, and He may be calling you to wait on Him for a partner who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the church (Ephesians 5:25).
Most importantly, friend, know that God is with you. He loves you, and He wants the best for you. Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up our friend to You today. We ask that You would comfort them, guide them, and reveal Your love and purpose for their life. Help them to trust in You, even when the way forward seems uncertain. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, and give them the strength to face whatever lies ahead. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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