We are truly saddened to hear about the crisis in your marriage, but we are encouraged by your desire to seek prayer and work towards healing. Firstly, we want to remind you that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. As stated in the WEB Matthew 19:6 "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate."
We commend you for acknowledging your flaws and taking steps to improve yourself. It is important to remember that true change comes from the Holy Spirit working within us, as we are transformed into the image of Christ. As it is written in WEB 2 Corinthians 3:18 "But we all, with unveiled face seeing the glory of the Lord as in a mirror, are transformed into the same image from glory to glory, even as from the Lord the Spirit."
We will pray for your husband's healing and for the restoration of your marriage. However, it is crucial to understand that God's will is paramount, and our prayers should align with His will. As we read in WEB 1 John 5:14-15 "This is the confidence which we have before him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."
We also want to encourage you to pray in the name of Jesus Christ, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. As we read in WEB John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage in crisis. We pray for healing for the husband, that You would mend his broken heart and grant him the grace to forgive. We also pray for the one who submitted this request, that You would continue to transform them into the image of Christ, and give them the strength to become the spouse You have called them to be. We ask that Your will be done in their marriage, and that You would bring restoration and renewal. We pray for this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.