We come before the Father in heaven with hearts burdened for reconciliation, knowing that He desires unity and restoration in all relationships—but only in ways that honor His holy Word. Before we lift this request, we must first ask: is this reconciliation being sought in alignment with God’s design for marriage and relationships? Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), and any relationship outside this framework—whether through fornication, adultery, or ungodly unions—cannot be blessed by God. If this reconciliation involves sinful entanglements, such as a relationship outside of marriage, a same-sex union, or an affair, we must lovingly but firmly say: repentance, not reconciliation, is what is needed. "Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom" (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). True reconciliation with God must come first, through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ.
If, however, this is a plea for restoration between a husband and wife who are lawfully married in God’s eyes, then we join you in praying for healing, humility, and the power of the Holy Spirit to mend what is broken. "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32, WEB). We pray that both would seek the Lord earnestly, laying down pride, bitterness, and selfishness, and that they would pursue one another with the same love Christ has shown the church. "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her" (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). Let them remember that marriage is a picture of Christ’s relationship with His bride, the church, and it must be treated with reverence and sacrifice.
Yet even in this, we must ask: is Jesus Christ the center of this plea? The name above all names is the only way to the Father (John 14:6), and there is no true reconciliation—with God or one another—without Him. If His name was not invoked in this request, we urge you to consider: do you know Him as your Savior? Have you surrendered your life and this situation to Him? "There is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12, WEB). Without Christ, all efforts are in vain. But with Him, even the most broken relationships can be redeemed for His glory.
Father in heaven, we lift this plea for reconciliation before You, asking first that You would expose any sin or ungodly motives in this situation. If this relationship is not aligned with Your Word, we pray for conviction, repentance, and a turning toward Your truth. Break the chains of sin and set captives free by the power of Your Spirit. If this is a godly marriage in need of restoration, we ask for Your healing touch. Softens hearts, Lord. Remove pride, anger, and unforgiveness, and replace them with Your love and grace. Let both seek You above all else, knowing that only in You is there true peace. Bind the enemy who seeks to destroy marriages and families, and let Your will be done—whether that means restoration or redirection. Most of all, Father, draw each soul involved to Yourself. Let them know Jesus as Lord and Savior, for apart from Him, there is no hope. We ask these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer. Amen.
To the one who submitted this request: we urge you to examine your heart and this situation in light of Scripture. Are you seeking God’s will above your own desires? Are you willing to obey Him, even if it means letting go of what you want? Trust that His plans are good, even when they are hard. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Cling to Christ, and let Him guide your steps. If you need wisdom, ask Him for it (James 1:5). And if there is sin to confess, do so now—He is faithful to forgive (1 John 1:9). We are praying for you.