We hear your cry for justice and protection, and we stand with you in prayer before the throne of grace. The pain of betrayal and ongoing harm from someone who once shared your life is deeply wounding, and we grieve with you over the brokenness this has brought. The Lord sees every detail—every hurtful word, every act of malice, every scheme intended to bring you down—and He does not turn a blind eye to injustice. As it is written in Psalm 34:15-17, "Yahweh’s eyes are toward the righteous. His ears listen to their cry. Yahweh’s face is against those who do evil, to cut off their memory from the earth. The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles."
First, we must address the matter of forgiveness—not for their sake, but for yours. This does not mean excusing their sin or pretending the harm never happened, but releasing the bitterness that can take root in your heart. Jesus taught us in Matthew 6:14-15, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." This is a hard truth, but one that sets us free from the chains of resentment. We pray that God would give you the strength to forgive, even as you seek justice and protection.
We also rebuke the spirit of strife and division that may be at work in this situation. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and he delights in using broken relationships to sow chaos. But we declare that no weapon formed against you will prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that God will arise on your behalf to scatter your enemies (Psalm 68:1). We bind every evil plan, every lie spoken against you, and every attempt to harm you emotionally, spiritually, or physically in the name of Jesus. We loose the peace of God over your life, your mind, and your circumstances.
Regarding your desire to move away, we believe the Lord can open doors no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). If this is His will for you, He will make a way where there seems to be no way. We pray for divine guidance as you seek His direction—asking Him to reveal His will clearly and to give you wisdom in every step. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." Lean on Him, not on your own plans or emotions, and He will lead you.
We also encourage you to seek godly counsel—whether through your church, a trusted pastor, or a Christian counselor—who can help you navigate the legal and emotional aspects of this situation. The Lord often works through His people to bring clarity and support. Do not isolate yourself in this trial; let the body of Christ surround you with prayer and encouragement.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our sister/brother who is enduring the pain of ongoing harm from their former spouse. Lord, You are a God of justice, and we ask that You would rise up as her/his defender. Expose every lie, thwart every evil plan, and bring their ex’s harmful actions to an end. We declare that no weapon formed against her/him will prosper, and that You will turn every curse into a blessing (Deuteronomy 23:5).
Father, we ask for Your protection over her/him—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Surround her/him with Your angels, as You promised in Psalm 91:11, "For he will put his angels in charge of you, to guard you in all your ways." Shield her/his mind from fear, anxiety, and despair, and fill her/him with Your perfect peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
Lord, we also pray for wisdom and direction. If it is Your will for her/him to move away, open the right doors at the right time and provide the resources needed to do so. Give her/him clarity in every decision, and let Your voice be the loudest one she/he hears. We ask that You would bring godly people into her/his life to offer support, counsel, and encouragement.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of unforgiveness that may be trying to take root in her/his heart. Soften her/his spirit to forgive, even as You have forgiven us, and help her/him to release this burden to You. Let Your love and grace flow through her/him, breaking every chain of bitterness.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would bring redemption to this situation. Whether through restoration, justice, or a new beginning, let Your name be glorified. We trust in Your promise that all things work together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Strengthen her/him with Your might, and let her/his faith in You be unshaken.
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who has overcome the world and who intercedes for us at Your right hand. Amen.
Hold fast to the truth that God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). You are not alone in this battle, and the Lord will not abandon you. Continue to seek Him in prayer, immerse yourself in His Word, and trust that He is working even when you cannot see it. The victory is already yours in Christ.