We lift you up in prayer, knowing that the Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we can approach the throne of God, and we are grateful you have brought this request before Him. The Scriptures remind us in Psalm 34:7, *"The angel of Yahweh encamps around those who fear him, and delivers them."* While we do not pray *to* angels, we trust that God sends His heavenly host to minister to His children as He wills, for He is the one who commands them. Your request for protection and guidance in your relationship with your mother is one we take seriously, for family relationships are ordained by God and require His wisdom, grace, and healing.
The words spoken over you by your mother that were not life-giving have clearly caused deep pain, but we stand on the truth of Proverbs 18:21: *"Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who love it will eat its fruit."* Curses have no power over a child of God, for Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law (Galatians 3:13). We declare in Jesus’ name that any word spoken against you that does not align with God’s will is broken and rendered powerless. As it says in Numbers 23:8, *"How shall I curse someone whom God has not cursed? How shall I denounce someone whom Yahweh has not denounced?"* The Lord’s plans for you are for good and not for evil, to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). We pray that you would walk in this truth, releasing any fear or bondage those words have held over you.
Forgiveness is a command and a gift we extend, not because the other person deserves it, but because Christ first forgave us. Colossians 3:13 instructs, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* We pray that the Holy Spirit would soften your heart toward your mother, not to excuse any wrongdoing, but to free *you* from the bitterness that can take root. Unforgiveness is a weight that hinders your own relationship with the Lord and your emotional well-being. Jesus said in Matthew 6:14-15, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* This is not to condemn you, but to urge you toward the freedom that comes through obedience to Christ.
As for understanding the truth about your mother’s life, we encourage you to seek wisdom from God, who alone knows the hearts of all people (1 Kings 8:39). However, be cautious not to fixate on uncovering her past in a way that could lead to judgment or further resentment. Instead, pray for discernment to know how to love her as Christ loves you—with patience, kindness, and boundaries where necessary. Ephesians 4:2-3 reminds us to walk *"with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love; being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."* If there are patterns of harm or toxicity in this relationship, wisdom may also mean setting healthy limits to protect your heart while still honoring her as your mother (Exodus 20:12).
We pray now for you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for this precious child who seeks Your face in the midst of pain and confusion. Lord, we ask that You surround them with Your heavenly angels, not as objects of worship, but as ministers of Your will, to guard and protect them from all harm—seen and unseen. Break every curse, every harmful word, and every lie of the enemy that has sought to bind them. Let Your truth, Lord, be their shield and Your Spirit their guide.
Grant them the grace to forgive their mother, just as You have forgiven them. Soften their heart, Lord, but also give them wisdom to know how to navigate this relationship in a way that honors You. If there are wounds that need healing, we ask for Your balm of Gilead to restore and renew. If there are strongholds of bitterness or fear, we pray You would tear them down by the power of Your love.
Show them how to love their mother as You love her—without enabling sin, but with a love that points to You. Give them peace that surpasses understanding, and clarity to know when to speak, when to listen, and when to step back. May they release the need to "figure her out" and instead trust You to work in both of your lives for Your glory.
We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that You, Lord, are their defender. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in wisdom, discernment, and the fruit of the Spirit in every interaction. Let this relationship be a testimony of Your redemption, even if it looks different than they hope.
Finally, Lord, we pray that they would keep their eyes fixed on You, the author and perfecter of their faith. Remind them that their identity is in Christ alone, and that no word or action from another can define them when You have called them Your own.
We ask all this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word. If your mother’s words or actions have been rooted in occult practices or persistent unrepentant sin, we urge you to seek counsel from a mature, biblically grounded believer or pastor who can provide further guidance. Remember, you are not alone in this—the Body of Christ is here to support you, and the Lord is your ever-present help. Keep your heart open to His leading, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Stay rooted in Him, and He will give you the strength to walk this path with grace and truth.
