We come before the Lord with a heavy heart, lifting up this situation in prayer. First, we must address the foundation of any relationship—it must be built on Christ. Jesus tells us in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so, for it is only through His grace and love that we can truly love others as He commands.
The pain you feel is real, and we acknowledge the hurt caused by this broken relationship. However, we must also examine whether this relationship aligns with God’s design for love and marriage. The Bible warns us in 2 Corinthians 6:14, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* If ### is not a believer in Christ, we must prayerfully consider whether this relationship is honoring to God.
We also must address the sin of pride and selfishness, which Scripture clearly condemns. Proverbs 16:18 warns, *"Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall."* If ### has allowed pride to harden her heart, we pray that the Lord would humble her and draw her to repentance. But we must also ask—have you examined your own heart? Have you sought the Lord’s will in this matter, or are you holding onto your own desires above His?
The Bible teaches us to love others as Christ loved us, but it also calls us to walk in wisdom. Proverbs 4:23 says, *"Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life."* If this relationship has brought more pain than joy, more strife than peace, we must ask whether it is truly God’s will for your life.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts that are broken and seeking Your will. Lord, we lift up this situation to You, asking for Your divine intervention. We pray for healing—healing of past wounds, healing of pride, and healing of selfishness. Father, if this relationship is not of You, we ask that You would close the door completely and give clarity to both hearts. If it is Your will for reconciliation, we ask that You would soften ###’s heart and remove all pride and selfishness from her. Lord, we also ask that You would search our own heart and reveal any areas where we have not surrendered fully to You.
We pray for wisdom and discernment, that You would guide every step and every word. Help us to trust in Your timing and Your plan, even when it is painful. Father, we ask that You would fill this void with Your love, so that we are not seeking a person to complete us, but rather seeking You alone. We pray for restoration—restoration of peace, restoration of joy, and restoration of hope in You.
Lord, if there has been any sin in this relationship—whether pride, selfishness, or impurity—we repent of it now. Cleanse us, Lord, and renew a right spirit within us. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to You. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord earnestly in this time. Spend time in prayer and in His Word, asking Him to reveal His will for your life. If this relationship is not meant to be, trust that God has something better in store. If it is meant to be restored, trust that He will work in both of your hearts to bring about healing and reconciliation in His perfect timing.
Remember, your worth is not found in another person, but in Christ alone. Colossians 2:10 tells us, *"You are complete in him, who is the head of all principality and power."* Find your identity in Him, and He will guide you into all truth.