We lift up your daughter before the Lord, knowing that He cares deeply for her heart, her struggles, and her future. It is clear she is facing disappointment, emotional turmoil, and distractions that are weighing heavily on her spirit. Let us first give thanks that you have brought this request before the throne of grace, for it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we can approach God with confidence. As Scripture reminds us, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB).
Your daughter’s desire for excellence is not wrong in itself, but when it becomes tied to her identity or self-worth, it can lead to unnecessary burden and anxiety. The enemy often uses comparison and unmet expectations to steal our joy and focus. We must remind her—and ourselves—that her value is not found in the prestige of her university or her academic achievements, but in being a beloved child of God. *"For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them"* (Ephesians 2:10, WEB). Her purpose is far greater than any earthly institution, and God has a plan for her life that transcends her current circumstances.
We also notice the concern about her habit of purchasing comic books and related merchandise. While entertainment itself is not sinful, we must ask whether this habit has become an escape or even an idol—something that distracts her from her responsibilities, her relationship with God, or her emotional healing. Scripture warns us, *"All things are lawful for me, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be mastered by anything"* (1 Corinthians 6:12, WEB). If this habit is consuming her time, finances, or mental energy in a way that hinders her growth, we pray that the Lord would break its hold over her. Let her find her comfort and joy in Him alone, for *"the joy of Yahweh is your strength"* (Nehemiah 8:10, WEB).
As for her academic goals, we pray that she would approach her studies with diligence, humility, and trust in the Lord’s timing. Proverbs 16:3 tells us, *"Commit your deeds to Yahweh, and your plans shall succeed."* Success is not guaranteed by human effort alone, but by surrendering her plans to God and seeking His will above her own. If it is His will for her to transfer to another university, He will open the doors. If not, He will provide the grace and contentment she needs to thrive where she is. Either way, her focus must be on growing in faith and wisdom, not merely on achieving a worldly standard of success.
We also encourage you, as her parent, to speak life and truth over her. Remind her that God’s plans for her are good, even when they don’t align with her own. *"‘For I know the plans that I have for you,’ says Yahweh, ‘plans of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future’* (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). Be a source of encouragement, but also of accountability—gently guiding her toward healthy habits and a balanced perspective.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of concern for this precious daughter. You know her name, her struggles, and the deepest longings of her heart. Lord, we ask that You would wrap her in Your peace, which surpasses all understanding. Free her from the spirit of comparison and disappointment that has taken root in her heart. Remind her that her identity is found in You alone, and that her worth is not tied to her achievements or the opinions of others.
We rebuked the enemy’s lies that have caused her to feel inadequate or hopeless. Break the chains of distraction and escapism that have bound her, especially in the area of comic books and unnecessary spending. Replace these habits with a hunger for Your Word and a passion for the purposes You have for her life. Give her the discipline to steward her time and resources wisely, and the wisdom to prioritize what truly matters.
Lord, we pray over her studies and her desire to transfer to another university. If it is Your will, open the doors for her and grant her favor in her exams. But if it is not, give her a heart of contentment and the ability to see the opportunities You have placed before her right now. Help her to grow where she is planted, to build godly relationships, and to seek You first in all things.
We also lift up her emotional well-being. Heal the wounds of disappointment and fear of failure. Fill her with Your joy and hope, so that she may walk in confidence, knowing that You are sovereign over her future. Surround her with godly influences—friends, mentors, and professors who will encourage her in her faith and her studies.
Finally, we pray for her parents, that You would give them wisdom as they guide and support her. Help them to model trust in You, so that she, too, may learn to surrender her plans to Your perfect will.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is our hope and our strength. Amen.