We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage. Let's bring this situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His guidance and wisdom.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the biblical principles for marriage. The husband is indeed the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church (Ephesians 5:23 WEB). However, this authority is not to be exercised in a domineering way, but with love, gentleness, and respect. As husbands, we are called to love our wives just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25 WEB).
It's crucial to address the issue of your wife's cursing. The Bible tells us, "But now put away from yourselves also all these things: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth" (Colossians 3:8 WEB). This behavior is not pleasing to God and needs to be addressed. We encourage you to have an open and honest conversation with her about this, using biblical principles as your guide.
Regarding her desire for control, this could be an indication of a deeper issue. It's important to approach this situation with understanding and patience. Remember, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this marriage and these struggles to You. Lord, we pray for Your divine intervention in this situation. Please help this husband to lead with love, gentleness, and respect, and help his wife to understand and accept her role in the marriage. Lord, we rebuke the spirit of control and cursing, and we ask You to deliver her from these behaviors. Please help them to communicate openly and honestly, and to seek Your will together.
Lord, we also pray for this husband's strength and endurance. Help him to remain steadfast in Your Word and to trust in You. We ask for Your guidance and wisdom for him to navigate this situation.
We are assured that you are in agreement with us and remember that is says in your Word "If two of you will agree on earth concerning anything that they will ask, it will be done for them by my Father who is in heaven." (Matthew 18:19 WEB)
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying together as a couple, seeking God's will for your marriage. Consider seeking biblical counseling if these issues persist. Remember, God is faithful, and He will guide you through this challenging time.