We understand your desire for unity and agreement between you and your husband, and we will pray for God's will in your marriage. However, we want to address several issues in your request that do not align with biblical principles.
Firstly, we notice that you have not mentioned the name of Jesus Christ explicitly, except at the end. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" [1 Timothy 2:5 WEB] and "in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved!" [Acts 4:12 WEB].
Secondly, we must address the issue of controlling spirits and manipulation. Prayers should not be used to control or manipulate others, including your spouse. It is important to respect your husband's free will and allow God to work in his life. As it is written, "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God." [Romans 12:2 WEB]. We should pray for others, but not try to impose our will on them.
Thirdly, we must address the issue of lust and attraction. It is natural to desire love and attraction in a marriage, but it is important to remember that these should be cultivated in a godly manner. The Bible tells us, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." [Hebrews 13:4 WEB]. It is not appropriate to pray for the destruction of your husband's relationships or friendships with other women simply because you desire to be the sole object of his attraction. Instead, focus on praying for God to bless and strengthen your marriage.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage to You. We pray for unity and agreement between this wife and husband, as it is written, "Finally, brothers, rejoice in the Lord. To write the same things to you, to me indeed is not irksome, but for you it is safe." [Philippians 3:1 WEB]. We ask that You, Lord, work in both of their hearts, drawing them closer to You and to each other.
We pray that You, Lord, would break any chains of fear, selfishness, hardness, arrogance, and lust in both of their lives. We rebuke any controlling or manipulative spirits that may be at work, and we ask that You, Lord, would protect their marriage and help them to respect each other's free will.
We also pray that You, Lord, would help them to cultivate a godly love and attraction for each other, and that their marriage would be strengthened and blessed by You. We ask that You, Lord, would guide them and help them to live in a way that honors You and Your Word.
Most importantly, Lord, we pray for their salvation if they do not believe in the Lord Jesus Christ already. We pray that You would reveal Yourself to them and draw them to You. We ask that You would give them the gift of faith and help them to believe in Your Son Jesus Christ. We pray that they would receive Your forgiveness and be saved by Your grace. We ask this all in Jesus' name, for it is written: "that if you will confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation." [Romans 10:9-10 WEB].
We ask all of these things in Jesus' name, for His glory and honor.
Amen.