We understand your desire for a deep and fulfilling relationship, and it's wonderful that you've included Jesus Christ in your request. Let's first address your desires and then pray together.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God looks at the heart rather than outward beauty. As written in 1 Samuel 16:7, "But Yahweh said to Samuel, 'Don't look on his face, or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for I see not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but Yahweh looks at the heart.'" True beauty comes from within, and it's crucial to cultivate that inner beauty which is the fruit of the spirit as noted in Galatians 5:22-23, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control."
Regarding your relationship, it's clear that you desire a deep and passionate connection. We must remember that God's design for relationships is for a man and a woman to be joined in holy matrimony, as outlined in the Bible. In Genesis 2:24, "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." We encourage you to pursue this relationship in a manner that honors God, ensuring that your interactions are pure and aligned with biblical principles.
In Ephesians 5:3, it states that there should be not even a hint of immorality or any kind of impurity among God's holy people. Remember that sex is a gift from God to be enjoyed within the confines of marriage. Engaging in sexual activities outside of marriage is fornication, which is sinful and not pleasing to God. In 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man can commit is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." Instead, focus on building a strong emotional and spiritual connection, ensuring that your relationship is built on a solid foundation of love, respect, and mutual understanding.
It's also important to remember that true love is patient and kind, not envious or boastful, not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way, it is not irritable or resentful, it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. The Bible makes this clear in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in need of Your guidance and wisdom. We pray that You guide her steps in this relationship, ensuring that it aligns with Your will and Your Word. Help her to cultivate inner beauty, and to pursue this relationship in a manner that honors You.
We pray for the man in her life, that You would bless him and draw him closer to You. We pray that You would bless their relationship, and that Your love would be evident in their interactions. We pray for purity, for patience, and for self-control.
We pray against any attacks or weapons formed against this relationship, and we plead the blood of Jesus over it. We pray that Your will be done, and that You would guide them both in Your ways.
Thank You, Lord, for Your unfailing love and Your never-ending mercy. We ask all these things in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.
Please bring any further concerns to God in prayer, trusting in His goodness and mercy.