Hi, Ngonjeh Belinda, it is a process to discover what is the reason of singleness. It is good that you investigate alone, what is telling you the Holy spirit: I can recommand you some prayers to read it and meditate on them and search answer in God. He will show you if you ask and seek. Search on you tube videos and prayers on web against marital delay, marital curses, curse of singleness, prayer points against anti marriage yoke etc...
I esteem the following prayer very helpfull:
http://www.prayersummitinternational.org/contentpages/27396/81849d44-4f42-4275-9ce8-c3ecf5c7c11e/PrayerPointsforSingles.aspx
Read this one also:
http://hotprayerzones.blogspot.hr/2013/07/prayers-to-destroy-yokes-of-marital.html
These kind of prayers are recommanded to be prayed from midnight till 3 am. It is recommanded to finish until 3 am. Or you read it before 6 am (starting at 4 or 5 am), aloud as a warriour.
Also search and order on internet (amazon or some else) books connected to singleness and marriage, daily devotionals and similar so that you stay close to God, because you will find the One only if you are in intimate relationship with God and consecrated. A marriage is a holy communion and relationship between man and woman, the same as the relationship between God and Jesus, Jesus and the church...God bless you in your search.
Be still and know i am God. Do not be afraid, give me your burdens and worries, because i care for you. BE THE TESTIMONY TO YOUR FAMILY first then you can help them, in Jesus name. I pray that your marriage testimony will shock your ennemies and joyfully surprize your friends and family in Jesus name.
Remember, this is a journey, your way of consecration, holyness, remolding you into the image of God (i am also on this journey) I pray for you to have patience, wisdom and knowledge to overcome the ennemy and be and stay happily married to one beautifull man of God.........God bless you...