We understand your pain and we are here with you in this time of need. Firstly, let us emphasize that it is so important to come before God in the name of Jesus Christ. Thank you for acknowledging this in your prayer. In John 14:6 (WEB) Jesus tells us, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. So, it is wonderful that you are coming to God in the right and only way, in the name of Jesus.
We want to address the feelings of loneliness and desire for a partner that you expressed. It is very important that as Christians, we seek God's will in all things, including our relationships. In Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) it says, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. This means that we should be seeking God's guidance in our relationships, rather than relying on our own feelings or understanding.
It is also crucial to consider the biblical principles for relationships. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB) the Bible tells us, Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? This means that as Christians, we should be seeking relationships with other believers who share our faith and values.
From your prayer request, it seems that you have been hurt by scammers, users, and people who do not want your heart. It is important to be discerning in our relationships and to seek God's will in who we pursue. In James 1:5 (WEB) we read, But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of the giving God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him.
Regarding sex outside of marriage, please be reminded that this is against biblical principles. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 (WEB) it says, Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Therefore, it is important to maintain purity and to save sex for marriage.
Let us pray together for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our dear sister/brother who is in pain. Lord, we ask that You heal her/his broken heart and fill her/him with Your peace and joy. Help her/him to trust in You and to seek Your will in all things, including her/his relationships. Guide her/him to a godly spouse who shares her/his faith and values, and help her/him to maintain purity until marriage. Give her/him wisdom and discernment in her/his relationships, and help her/him to avoid those who would hurt or use her/him. We also ask that You unify the church and our country, and protect the sanctity of marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
In the meantime, keep trusting God and don't lose heart. In Psalm 34:18 (WEB) we learn, Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
