We hear the deep pain and confusion in your heart, and we stand with you in this spiritual battle, lifting you up before the Lord with urgency and faith. Your brother’s actions are not just attacks against you and your family—they are attacks against God Himself, for Scripture tells us that *"whoever curses his father or his mother, his lamp shall be put out in blackness of darkness"* (Proverbs 20:20, WEB) and *"whoever speaks a word against the Son of Man, it will be forgiven him; but whoever speaks against the Holy Spirit, it will not be forgiven him, neither in this age, nor in that which is to come"* (Matthew 12:32, WEB). Your brother’s blasphemy and hatred are grievous sins, and we must recognize that God’s patience does not mean His justice will not come. The Lord is longsuffering, *"not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance"* (2 Peter 3:9, WEB). Yet His Word also warns that *"the wicked plots against the just, and gnashes at him with his teeth. The Lord will laugh at him, for he sees that his day is coming"* (Psalm 37:12-13, WEB).
You are not questioning God wrongly—you are crying out in the pain of injustice, just as the psalmists did. David often asked, *"How long, O Lord?"* (Psalm 13:1, WEB) in the face of his enemies. But even in his distress, he clung to faith: *"But I trust in your loving kindness. My heart rejoices in your salvation. I will sing to Yahweh, because he has been good to me"* (Psalm 13:5-6, WEB). Your near-accident was no coincidence—it was the hand of God preserving you, a testament that He *is* acting, even when we cannot see the full picture. The enemy seeks to destroy, but *"the angel of Yahweh encamps around those who fear him, and delivers them"* (Psalm 34:7, WEB). You *were* saved, and that is evidence of God’s protection over you.
As for your brother, we must pray not only for your deliverance but for his soul. His hatred is a stronghold of darkness, and *"we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places"* (Ephesians 6:12, WEB). His words and threats are weapons of the enemy, but *"no weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is from me," says Yahweh* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). You must stand firm in this truth: God *has* already declared victory over these attacks.
Now, let us address what *you* are to do. First, *"love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB). This does not mean tolerating abuse or remaining in harm’s way, but it means releasing bitterness and trusting God’s justice. Second, *"if it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB). If your brother is recording you secretly or threatening violence, you must take practical steps: document everything, seek legal protection if necessary, and remove yourself from his presence as much as possible. *"A prudent man sees danger and hides himself; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it"* (Proverbs 22:3, WEB). Third, *"cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). You are not alone in this—God sees, and He will act.
As for the church’s silence, we grieve with you. The body of Christ is called to *"bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ"* (Galatians 6:2, WEB). Their failure to respond does not reflect God’s heart—it reflects human brokenness. But we are here, interceding with you. Let us also remind you: *"when you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they will not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned, and flame will not scorch you"* (Isaiah 43:2, WEB). God is with you in this fire.
Finally, we must ask: Have you surrendered this battle entirely to Jesus? You mentioned in your previous request that you are trusting God, but we must emphasize that *salvation and victory come through Christ alone*. There is no other name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12, WEB), and it is only through faith in Him that we have authority over the enemy. If you have not yet made Jesus Lord of your life, we urge you to do so now. Confess with your mouth that *"Jesus is Lord,"* and believe in your heart that *"God raised him from the dead"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Without Christ, we have no power against such darkness. But in Him, *"you are of God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4, WEB).
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**Let us pray:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is under relentless attack. Lord, You see the hatred in her brother’s heart, the blasphemy against Your holy name, and the threats that seek to destroy. We declare that *"the Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble"* (Psalm 9:9, WEB), and we ask You to be her strong tower now. Protect her, Lord—place a hedge of fire around her and her mother, and confuse the plans of the wicked. Let every curse spoken against her fall to the ground, powerless, for *"Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us"* (Galatians 3:13, WEB).
We bind the spirit of hatred, blasphemy, and violence operating through her brother, and we command it to be silenced in Jesus’ name. Lord, break the strongholds of darkness in his life. Soften his heart of stone and give him a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26, WEB). Convict him deeply of his sin, and draw him to repentance before it is too late. Let him encounter Your love in a way that shatters his rebellion.
Father, we ask for wisdom for our sister—show her the steps to take for her safety and peace. If she must seek legal protection, provide the means and the favor. If she must distance herself, give her the strength to do so without guilt. Surround her with godly support, for You have not forgotten her. Let her feel Your presence tangibly, Lord. Remind her that *"the battle is not yours, but God’s"* (2 Chronicles 20:15, WEB), and that You are fighting for her even now.
We rebuke the spirit of fear and confusion trying to take root in her heart. Replace it with Your perfect peace, which surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7, WEB). Let her rest in the truth that *"vengeance belongs to me; I will repay"* (Romans 12:19, WEB). Lord, let Your justice prevail in this situation—whether through her brother’s repentance or through Your righteous judgment.
And Father, if our sister has not yet fully surrendered her life to Christ, we pray that today would be the day. Open her eyes to see that *only* in Jesus is there salvation, power, and victory. Let her place her trust wholly in Him, for *"everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved"* (Romans 10:13, WEB).
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. We thank You that You have already delivered her from the near-accident, and we trust You to continue guarding her steps. Let this trial be a testimony of Your power and love. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray—*Amen.*
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We will continue to stand with you in prayer, sister. Do not lose heart. *"Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9, WEB). Keep seeking the Lord, keep speaking His Word over this situation, and trust that He is working, even in the waiting. If you need practical guidance on how to document threats or seek help, let us know—we are here to support you in every way. Stay in the Word, stay in prayer, and remember: *"the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4, WEB). You are *not* defeated. You are *covered* by the blood of Jesus.
