I had an experience with my piano teacher yesterday that was a bit hurtful. I take lessons with her long distance and have been for about a year or maybe two years now. I wanted to send her a Christmas gift as I feel that now, it's appropriate to do that since I've known her for a while and I wanted to do something nice for her as I appreciate her as a teacher. I was just going to send it to her in the mail. I messaged her asking her if I could send her a gift and after a while as I was messaging her, I began to realize that it was seeming as though she did not want to give me her address. She did not outrightly say this but it became (seemingly) quite apparent that this was the case based on how she was responding to me. I could be wrong but this really, really seemed to be the case. After a little while of messaging her, I just didn't press the subject any further. I have a lesson with her this week and I don't know if maybe she will address everything then. She is a Christian. I have posted before about dealing with spiritual warfare all my life that influences people to do terrible things to me to push me toward unforgiveness. I have had many bad experiences due to this spiritual warfare with my piano teacher where she has been under its influence and done hurtful things. Of course, as God has delivered me out of this warfare, things have improved with her and others. I don't know if maybe yesterday she was under the influence of this warfare as it has been trying to rise up again due to a medical condition called PMDD that I have which affects my menstrual cycles and causes them to be very difficult. Whenever my menstrual cycles are scheduled to come, I experience difficult symptoms and during this time, Satan attacks me more through this warfare. He has been doing this in the past few days and I also had other experiences with other people yesterday that I feel also possibly reflected this warfare trying to rise up. Please pray for my healing and cure from PMDD and for healing and a cure for all those who have it. Of course, no one is obligated to give anyone their address, it's just that this feels hurtful due to the fact that I have known her for so long and have always tried to do my best as a student and interact with her with kindness. I also have thoughts in my head that there are also other circumstances concerning my lessons with her which make her being standoffish about giving me her address seem a bit rude. I'll be honest, I have thoughts in my head that the way she was behaving about me sending a gift made me feel like I'm some kind of creep or something. Please pray that I would just respond to this situation in godliness. I have some other thoughts in my head about reconsidering taking lessons with her. In general, I just feel I have no interest in piano anymore. I love it but when one of my sisters passed away last year, I lost a lot of interest in it. There are also other things that I feel might be contributing to me losing interest. Thank you.
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We hear your heart and the pain this situation has caused you. It’s understandable to feel hurt when someone you’ve built a relationship with over time seems distant or unwilling to share something as simple as an address for a gift. The enemy often uses small misunderstandings or rejections to plant seeds of doubt, insecurity, or even bitterness, especially when you’re already battling spiritual warfare and physical struggles like PMDD. We want to stand with you in prayer and encouragement, trusting God to bring clarity, healing, and peace to your heart.
First, let’s address the spiritual warfare you’re facing. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:12, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." The enemy wants to isolate you, make you feel unwanted, and stir up unforgiveness in your heart. But we serve a God who is greater than any scheme of the devil. We rebuke the spirit of rejection, confusion, and bitterness that may be trying to take root in this situation. We declare that God’s peace, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
It’s also important to acknowledge the grief you’re carrying from the loss of your sister. Grief can dim our passion for things we once loved, and that’s okay. God sees your pain and collects every tear (Psalm 56:8). We pray that He would restore your joy in piano, not as an obligation, but as a gift from Him. If it’s His will for you to continue, He will renew your love for it. If not, He will lead you to something else that brings Him glory and you fulfillment. Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us, "For everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven." Trust that God has a purpose for this season of your life, even if it looks different than you expected.
Now, let’s talk about the situation with your piano teacher. It’s possible she has reasons for not sharing her address that have nothing to do with you—perhaps concerns about privacy, boundaries, or even past experiences that make her cautious. However, her response may have felt dismissive or even hurtful, and it’s valid to feel that way. Proverbs 13:12 says, "Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when longing is fulfilled, it is a tree of life." It’s natural to feel disappointed when kindness isn’t reciprocated in the way we hoped.
But we also want to encourage you to guard your heart against assumptions or bitterness. Proverbs 4:23 warns, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Instead of dwelling on what *might* be true about her motives, we pray that God would give you wisdom to respond in a way that honors Him. If she brings it up in your next lesson, you might gently ask if there’s a reason she prefers not to share her address, or you could simply let it go and continue to treat her with kindness, trusting God to work in the situation. Romans 12:18 says, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." Sometimes peace means choosing not to press an issue, even if it feels unresolved.
We also want to address the temptation to withdraw from piano altogether. If this is something you once loved, don’t let the enemy use this situation to rob you of joy. Colossians 3:23 reminds us, "And whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men." Even if your teacher’s response was less than ideal, your gift of music is ultimately for the Lord. If you feel led to step away, do so prayerfully, but don’t let hurt or frustration make that decision for you.
Most importantly, we want to lift up your battle with PMDD and the spiritual attacks that come with it. We pray for complete healing and relief from the symptoms you’re experiencing. Psalm 103:2-3 says, "Praise Yahweh, my soul, and don’t forget all his benefits; who forgives all your sins; who heals all your diseases." We declare healing over your body and mind, and we rebuke the enemy’s attempts to use this condition to discourage or oppress you. God is your healer, and we trust Him to bring restoration.
Let’s pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is hurting and seeking Your peace. Lord, we ask that You would heal her heart from the pain of feeling rejected or misunderstood. We rebuke the spirit of rejection and bitterness that the enemy is trying to plant in her life. Fill her with Your perfect peace and remind her of Your unconditional love.
Father, we also pray for healing from PMDD. We ask that You would touch her body and bring relief from the symptoms she’s experiencing. Strengthen her during this time of spiritual attack, and help her to stand firm in Your truth. Remind her that she is not alone, and that You are her refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1).
Lord, we ask for wisdom in how to handle the situation with her piano teacher. Give her the words to say, or the grace to let it go, whichever You desire. Help her to see this situation through Your eyes and to respond in a way that honors You. If it’s Your will for her to continue with piano, renew her joy in it. If not, lead her to the next thing You have for her.
Finally, Father, we pray for her grief over the loss of her sister. Comfort her with Your presence and remind her that You are close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). Help her to trust You in every area of her life, knowing that You work all things together for good for those who love You (Romans 8:28).
We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus, who has overcome the world and every scheme of the enemy. Amen.
Continue to seek the Lord in this season, sister. He sees your heart and your desire to honor Him, even in the midst of pain. Trust that He is working, even when it’s not immediately visible. If you feel led to step away from piano, do so with peace, knowing that God has a plan for your next steps. And if you stay, do so with joy, knowing that your gift is ultimately for Him. You are not alone in this battle, and we stand with you in prayer.
First, let’s address the spiritual warfare you’re facing. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:12, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." The enemy wants to isolate you, make you feel unwanted, and stir up unforgiveness in your heart. But we serve a God who is greater than any scheme of the devil. We rebuke the spirit of rejection, confusion, and bitterness that may be trying to take root in this situation. We declare that God’s peace, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
It’s also important to acknowledge the grief you’re carrying from the loss of your sister. Grief can dim our passion for things we once loved, and that’s okay. God sees your pain and collects every tear (Psalm 56:8). We pray that He would restore your joy in piano, not as an obligation, but as a gift from Him. If it’s His will for you to continue, He will renew your love for it. If not, He will lead you to something else that brings Him glory and you fulfillment. Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us, "For everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven." Trust that God has a purpose for this season of your life, even if it looks different than you expected.
Now, let’s talk about the situation with your piano teacher. It’s possible she has reasons for not sharing her address that have nothing to do with you—perhaps concerns about privacy, boundaries, or even past experiences that make her cautious. However, her response may have felt dismissive or even hurtful, and it’s valid to feel that way. Proverbs 13:12 says, "Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when longing is fulfilled, it is a tree of life." It’s natural to feel disappointed when kindness isn’t reciprocated in the way we hoped.
But we also want to encourage you to guard your heart against assumptions or bitterness. Proverbs 4:23 warns, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Instead of dwelling on what *might* be true about her motives, we pray that God would give you wisdom to respond in a way that honors Him. If she brings it up in your next lesson, you might gently ask if there’s a reason she prefers not to share her address, or you could simply let it go and continue to treat her with kindness, trusting God to work in the situation. Romans 12:18 says, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." Sometimes peace means choosing not to press an issue, even if it feels unresolved.
We also want to address the temptation to withdraw from piano altogether. If this is something you once loved, don’t let the enemy use this situation to rob you of joy. Colossians 3:23 reminds us, "And whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men." Even if your teacher’s response was less than ideal, your gift of music is ultimately for the Lord. If you feel led to step away, do so prayerfully, but don’t let hurt or frustration make that decision for you.
Most importantly, we want to lift up your battle with PMDD and the spiritual attacks that come with it. We pray for complete healing and relief from the symptoms you’re experiencing. Psalm 103:2-3 says, "Praise Yahweh, my soul, and don’t forget all his benefits; who forgives all your sins; who heals all your diseases." We declare healing over your body and mind, and we rebuke the enemy’s attempts to use this condition to discourage or oppress you. God is your healer, and we trust Him to bring restoration.
Let’s pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is hurting and seeking Your peace. Lord, we ask that You would heal her heart from the pain of feeling rejected or misunderstood. We rebuke the spirit of rejection and bitterness that the enemy is trying to plant in her life. Fill her with Your perfect peace and remind her of Your unconditional love.
Father, we also pray for healing from PMDD. We ask that You would touch her body and bring relief from the symptoms she’s experiencing. Strengthen her during this time of spiritual attack, and help her to stand firm in Your truth. Remind her that she is not alone, and that You are her refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1).
Lord, we ask for wisdom in how to handle the situation with her piano teacher. Give her the words to say, or the grace to let it go, whichever You desire. Help her to see this situation through Your eyes and to respond in a way that honors You. If it’s Your will for her to continue with piano, renew her joy in it. If not, lead her to the next thing You have for her.
Finally, Father, we pray for her grief over the loss of her sister. Comfort her with Your presence and remind her that You are close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). Help her to trust You in every area of her life, knowing that You work all things together for good for those who love You (Romans 8:28).
We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus, who has overcome the world and every scheme of the enemy. Amen.
Continue to seek the Lord in this season, sister. He sees your heart and your desire to honor Him, even in the midst of pain. Trust that He is working, even when it’s not immediately visible. If you feel led to step away from piano, do so with peace, knowing that God has a plan for your next steps. And if you stay, do so with joy, knowing that your gift is ultimately for Him. You are not alone in this battle, and we stand with you in prayer.
Dear friend,
We're here with you, feeling the sting of this situation. It's understandable to feel hurt when someone we've built a relationship with seems distant or unwilling to share something simple like an address for a gift. It's like a small cut that, when left untended, can become infected and cause more pain.
We want to encourage you to keep a soft heart, ready to forgive, even if your teacher doesn't apologize or explain. Remember, we're called to love as Christ loved us, even when we've been hurt (Ephesians 5:2). It's not about her actions, but your response that matters most.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Lord, we come to You with a heavy heart. Help us to forgive as You forgave us, even when it's hard. Give us the strength to love our teacher as You love us, even if she doesn't reciprocate. Help us to see this situation through Your eyes, and to respond in a way that honors You.
Lord, we also lift up our sister's battle with PMDD. We ask that You would touch her body and bring relief from her symptoms. Strengthen her during this time of spiritual attack, and remind her that she is not alone. You are her refuge and strength.
Finally, Lord, we pray for peace in this situation. Give us wisdom in how to handle it, and help us to trust in Your perfect plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We're here with you, feeling the sting of this situation. It's understandable to feel hurt when someone we've built a relationship with seems distant or unwilling to share something simple like an address for a gift. It's like a small cut that, when left untended, can become infected and cause more pain.
We want to encourage you to keep a soft heart, ready to forgive, even if your teacher doesn't apologize or explain. Remember, we're called to love as Christ loved us, even when we've been hurt (Ephesians 5:2). It's not about her actions, but your response that matters most.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Lord, we come to You with a heavy heart. Help us to forgive as You forgave us, even when it's hard. Give us the strength to love our teacher as You love us, even if she doesn't reciprocate. Help us to see this situation through Your eyes, and to respond in a way that honors You.
Lord, we also lift up our sister's battle with PMDD. We ask that You would touch her body and bring relief from her symptoms. Strengthen her during this time of spiritual attack, and remind her that she is not alone. You are her refuge and strength.
Finally, Lord, we pray for peace in this situation. Give us wisdom in how to handle it, and help us to trust in Your perfect plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
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