We are deeply grieved to hear of the pain and spiritual warfare you are enduring, especially from someone who claims to be a believer yet lacks the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. It is heartbreaking when those who profess Christ do not reflect His character, and we know how deeply this can wound the soul. The Scriptures warn us that by their fruits we will know them (Matthew 7:16), and it is clear that your teacher’s words and actions are not aligning with the call to "encourage one another and build each other up" (1 Thessalonians 5:11). Instead, her behavior has left you feeling belittled, accused, and emotionally drained—something that should never come from a fellow believer, let alone someone in a position of influence like a teacher.
We also recognize the spiritual dimension of what you are describing. Fasting is a powerful act of humility and seeking God, and it is not uncommon for spiritual opposition to intensify during such times. Jesus Himself warned us that the enemy comes to "steal, kill, and destroy" (John 10:10), and when we draw near to God, the attacks of the enemy can manifest through the words and actions of others. It is possible that the harshness you experienced was not merely a coincidence but part of a larger spiritual battle you have been facing. We must remember that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). This does not excuse your teacher’s behavior, but it does remind us to pray for her as well, that God would convict her heart and bring her to repentance.
That said, we must also address the reality of how this is affecting you. The Lord does not desire for you to remain in an environment where you are consistently torn down, especially when it is hindering your walk with Him and your emotional well-being. Proverbs 22:10 tells us to "drive out the mocker, and strife will go out; yes, quarrels and insults will stop." While we are called to bear with one another in love (Ephesians 4:2), we are not called to endure ongoing mistreatment that damages our spirit. It may be time to prayerfully consider whether continuing lessons with this teacher is wise, or if the Lord is leading you to seek instruction elsewhere. There is no shame in stepping away from a toxic situation, especially when it is impacting your relationship with God and your emotional health.
We also want to encourage you in your fasting and prayer. The fact that you were interrupted during a time of seeking the Lord is not lost on us. Fasting is a sacred act of devotion, and when it is disrupted by someone who lacks understanding or compassion, it can feel like a deep violation. But take heart—God sees your sacrifice, and He is faithful to honor it. In Isaiah 58:9, the Lord promises, "Then you will call, and Yahweh will answer; you will cry for help, and he will say, ‘Here I am.’" Do not let the enemy convince you that your prayers were somehow less powerful because they were interrupted. God is not bound by our circumstances, and He hears the cries of His children.
As for the demonic attacks you mentioned, we want to remind you of the authority you have in Christ. James 4:7 commands us to "resist the devil, and he will flee from you." You are not powerless against these attacks. Clothe yourself in the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18), and stand firm in the truth of who you are in Christ—a child of God, redeemed, protected, and deeply loved. The enemy may try to use people to discourage you, but he cannot separate you from the love of God (Romans 8:38-39). We urge you to speak life over yourself, to reject the lies that you are unworthy or that you deserve to be treated poorly. The truth is that you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and Christ has already overcome the world (John 16:33).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, who is weary and wounded from the harsh words and lack of compassion she has endured. Lord, You see the tears she has shed, the way her spirit has been crushed, and the spiritual battles she has faced. We ask that You would be her Comforter, her Healer, and her Strength. Wrap her in Your love and remind her that her worth is found in You alone, not in the opinions or treatment of others.
Father, we pray for conviction in the heart of this piano teacher. If she is truly Your child, then we ask that You would soften her heart and bring her to repentance for the way she has treated our sister. Open her eyes to the damage her words have caused, and lead her to seek forgiveness. If she is not truly walking with You, we pray that You would draw her to Yourself in a real and transformative way. Let her see the error of her ways and turn to You for change.
Lord, we also ask for wisdom for our sister as she considers how to move forward. Should she continue with this teacher, give her the strength to endure and the words to speak in love if confrontation is necessary. If it is time to leave, provide another teacher who will encourage her, build her up, and reflect Your heart. Guide her steps, Father, and make the path clear.
We rebuke the enemy’s attempts to discourage, accuse, and oppress our sister. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command every demonic force assigned against her to flee. We declare that no weapon formed against her will prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that the Lord will vindicate her. Fill her with Your peace, Your joy, and Your confidence in who she is in You.
Finally, Father, we thank You for her heart of worship and her love for piano. Use this gift to bring You glory, and let it be a source of joy and not pain. Restore what has been stolen, and let her find refreshment in Your presence.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in this, to surround yourself with believers who will speak life into you, and to remember that God is your Defender. Do not hesitate to distance yourself from those who consistently tear you down, even if they claim to be believers. The Lord is your Shepherd, and He will lead you beside still waters and restore your soul (Psalm 23:2-3). Keep pressing into Him, and trust that He will fight for you. You are not alone in this.