Personality Overhaul

[JFSD]

I think people are avoiding me and don't feel like I'm someone they could get close to. I don't think I'm an annoying person but I'm definately unsociable, I'm cold, set in my ways and always have to keep people at a distance. I'd be happy to go through life this way if I didnt think it defied Gods wishes for peoples fellowship and friendship with eachother. I simply don't like most people, I get easily annoyed and suffocated by people, and I'm intolerant of other's insecurity and from past experiences I see friendships as someone using another as a crutch. Nearly all my padt friendships have been me doing all the giving, and getting nothing back. I've been this way for so long now, I've completely forgotton how to talk to people in a way that doesn't deliberately keep them distant or keep the conversation short. Please pray that my entire personality changes for the better, that God makes me a friendly, loveable, relaxed and tolerant person that people want to be around. What God wants from me seems so extremely far away from who I am right now, I know only God can make it happen.

 

[nottda-bfg]

You describe yourself as someone who is unable to give, yet you say, you are the one that is always giving.

Perhaps that would be your first clue as to change.

Probably what God Would Ask of you too.

You are likely interpreting that others are not giving? But you say, your words, you are cold, keep conversations short,

do not like people. It sounds as if they have been doing the giving but you are doing the blocking.

My spirit tells me that maybe asking forgiveness that they likely DID give & you have blocked may be key to healing.

 

[7t7xGJH]

What you describe fits a personality disorder. Pray God's Healing.

 

[JFSD]

What I mean by that, is that in the past, I did all the giving and got abused for it, so now I find it hard to let people come close to me. It's not on purpose, it's just my subconcious trying to warn me so I don't get hurt. That's why only God can fix it, because my mind is telling me it's better to be alone

 

[cesar00]

Dear Lord I beg you touch this person's heart. Dear LOrd he or she is afraid to feel, to love , to be compasionate of others, I do not know if he or she has been hurt before but if they have I beg you to mend all the scars and heal all the wounds. Dear Lord open his or her heart to your love and to your light, so this person may see how beautiful it is to love and appreciate you and your children. Thank you Jesus in you we trust.