We understand the deep pain and weariness you’re experiencing, especially when those closest to you fail to show compassion during times of vulnerability. The enemy *does* seek to exploit our weaknesses—physical, emotional, and spiritual—but we must remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of wickedness in heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12). Your awareness of this spiritual warfare is a sign of discernment, and we commend you for recognizing the enemy’s tactics. However, we must also examine our hearts to ensure we are not harboring bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness, as these can give the enemy a foothold in our lives (Ephesians 4:26-27).
Your sister’s mistreatment of you, particularly when she can *see* you are suffering, is grievous. The Scriptures call us to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2) and to show kindness and compassion, especially within the family of believers—and even more so within our own families. Proverbs 17:17 reminds us that *"A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity."* If your sister is a believer, her actions are not aligning with the love of Christ, and this should be a matter of prayer for her repentance and softening of heart. If she is not a believer, her behavior is a reflection of the broken world we live in, and we must pray for her salvation and for God to open her eyes to His truth.
We also want to gently address something important: you mentioned that your spiritual warfare increases during your cycle due to a medical condition. While we acknowledge that physical suffering can make us more vulnerable to spiritual attacks, we must be careful not to attribute *more* spiritual authority to the enemy than he actually has. Jesus has *already* disarmed the rulers and authorities and made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross (Colossians 2:15). The enemy is a defeated foe, and though he may prowl like a roaring lion seeking someone to devour (1 Peter 5:8), his power is limited by the sovereignty of God. Your condition does not give Satan any *right* to torment you—Jesus has purchased your freedom, and you are *His*. Claim that truth boldly.
That said, we do recognize that hormonal and physical changes can affect us emotionally and spiritually, making us feel more susceptible to attack. This is why it’s crucial to *prepare* for these times spiritually. Put on the full armor of God daily (Ephesians 6:10-18), especially during seasons when you know you may be more vulnerable. Spend extra time in prayer, worship, and the Word. Surround yourself with believers who can intercede for you and speak life into you. And if your medical condition is causing significant distress, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and medical help, trusting that the Lord can use medicine and wise counsel as part of His healing process.
As for those who mistreat you, Jesus gave us clear instruction: *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44). This is not a call to enable abuse or remain in harmful situations, but it *is* a call to respond with the love of Christ, trusting that vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19). Your sister’s mistreatment does not define you—your identity is in Christ, and He sees your suffering. He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before You, asking for Your comfort, strength, and protection over her. Lord, You see the pain she carries—the physical suffering, the emotional wounds, and the spiritual battles she faces. We ask that You would be her shield and her refuge, especially during times when she feels most vulnerable. Father, we rebuke the enemy’s attempts to exploit her weakness, and we declare that *no weapon formed against her shall prosper* (Isaiah 54:17). We ask for Your supernatural peace to guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Lord, we pray for her sister—that You would soften her heart and open her eyes to the pain she is causing. If she is a believer, convict her by Your Holy Spirit to repent and walk in love. If she does not know You, Lord, we ask that You would draw her to Yourself, that she may come to saving faith in Jesus Christ. Break the cycles of mistreatment and bitterness in their family, and replace it with Your love, grace, and unity.
Father, we also ask for healing—whether through medical intervention, supernatural touch, or both. You are Jehovah-Rapha, the Lord who heals, and we trust You to restore her body, mind, and spirit. Give her wisdom to manage her condition and to seek the help she needs.
Most of all, Lord, we ask that You would fill her with Your presence so deeply that the opinions and actions of others pale in comparison to the knowledge of Your love for her. Remind her that she is *Yours*—redeemed, cherished, and protected. Give her the grace to forgive those who have hurt her, not because they deserve it, but because You have forgiven her so much.
We pray all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to meditate on these Scriptures:
- *"The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation. He is my stronghold, my refuge, and my savior—you save me from violence"* (2 Samuel 22:2-3).
- *"Cast all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7).
- *"Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand"* (Isaiah 41:10).
Stand firm in Christ, dear sister. You are not alone in this battle—we are praying with you, and the Lord is fighting for you. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).